Audio Interview, Bob Crystal, December 7, 2011
- BOB CRYSTAL: I came out my freshman year
- at college, which was 1967.
- EVELYN BAILEY: You don't mind if I tape?
- BOB CRYSTAL: No.
- I was going to Cornell University.
- And I came out in 1967.
- And--
- EVELYN BAILEY: Do I dare ask how old you were then?
- BOB CRYSTAL: Well, you just add twenty-one--
- CREW: Well he was a freshman.
- BOB CRYSTAL: Freshman in 1967.
- I'm sixty-two.
- And I was very blessed.
- KEVIN INDOVINO: Let's just kind of slow down just a little bit.
- So if we were to talk to you a little bit about what
- it was like being gay in the 1960s,
- even though you were out into 1967,
- I'm sure you probably had some sort of sense of--
- BOB CRYSTAL: Yes I did.
- KEVIN INDOVINO: OK, tell me about the '60s-- well I mean,
- how far back do you--
- EVELYN BAILEY: Remember.
- Recall, remember.
- BOB CRYSTAL: If you remember the '60s, you didn't live it.
- KEVIN INDOVINO: Yeah, right.
- BOB CRYSTAL: There was something that
- affected my life very strongly.
- There was a phrase in New York state
- law called moral turpitude.
- And if you had moral turpitude, you
- couldn't hold a New York State license,
- which meant that you couldn't even be a hairdresser.
- EVELYN BAILEY: Wow.
- BOB CRYSTAL: So that if you had a conviction
- of any kind of moral--
- on any morals charge at all, and that included solicitation,
- the first thing that happened was your license was revoked.
- So that created a huge fear.
- And when people talk about the Stonewall Riots,
- they don't understand that there were people in that bar who
- are willing to give up their livelihood, not just
- an evening in jail, but they were willing to give up
- their livelihood.
- And when we talk about Gordon Urlacher being
- willing to be the liaison between the gay community
- and the police department in 1972,
- he was doing a tremendous service to the gay community
- by being able to erase or change the arrest records.
- EVELYN BAILEY: Hm.
- BOB CRYSTAL: Because there there were people who were teachers.
- You had to be licensed to be a teacher,
- you had be a license to be a hair dresser,
- you had to be a license to be a plumber.
- And if anybody filed a complaint against you,
- and there was an arrest record to go with it,
- at the Department of the Regents, which Regents
- didn't used to be just education of high schools.
- It was-- they took charge of licensing.
- EVELYN BAILEY: Oh wow.
- BOB CRYSTAL: And so on a guy or gal who was arrested on morals
- charges was no longer able to work
- and with reciprocity could not work in other states either.
- Could no longer work in New York state,
- in the licensed category-- doctor, lawyer--
- EVELYN BAILEY: Plumber.
- BOB CRYSTAL: Hairdresser, plumber--
- KEVIN INDOVINO: Teacher.
- BOB CRYSTAL: Teacher--
- EVELYN BAILEY: Carpenter
- BOB CRYSTAL: Well, carpentry, yeah,
- because it was a union job.
- EVELYN BAILEY: Probably stonemason.
- BOB CRYSTAL: Well, most of the construction trades
- were union in the '60s.
- Unions were amongst the most liberal.
- The individuals of the unions weren't, but the unions
- themselves were most liberal.
- They didn't do any of that stuff.
- EVELYN BAILEY: Were you born in Rochester?
- BOB CRYSTAL: No, I'm an Army brat,
- I was born in Ann Arbor, Michigan.
- My parents met under the GI Bill.
- My mother was a Navy nurse, and my father was an Army Sergeant.
- And he served in the Ardennes and they both got out and went
- to University of Michigan, and discovered that the GI Bill was
- not generous if you had one GI Bill
- person in marrying another GI Bill person,
- you ended up one GI Bill income.
- EVELYN BAILEY: Hm.
- BOB CRYSTAL: So my arrival was--
- my conception was not a joyous event.
- KEVIN INDOVINO: So when did you then come to Rochester?
- BOB CRYSTAL: After I graduated from Cornell.
- I had a choice of either going home
- to live with mother and dad, or coming here and looking
- for work.
- I was getting unemployment at twenty-five dollars a week,
- because--
- EVELYN BAILEY: Now, at Cornell, was there--
- was the Mattachine Society--
- BOB CRYSTAL: No, it wasn't the Mattachine,
- it was the Cornell University Gay Liberation Front.
- And I've never been able to find anybody in the records,
- and I have a really memory for names,
- but the one name I remember is Bob Roth, R-O-T-H,
- and he and his lover founded the CUGLF,
- and that had to be a pseudonym.
- Because I've never been able to find him.
- EVELYN BAILEY: Yeah.
- Yeah.
- BOB CRYSTAL: And he and Bob Osborn born knew each other.
- And Bob Osborn founded U of R GLF in 1960--
- EVELYN BAILEY: 1970.
- BOB CRYSTAL: 1970.
- And Bob Roth founded CUGLF the right
- after the Stonewall Riots.
- EVELYN BAILEY: And did you know Larry Fine?
- BOB CRYSTAL: Mm-hm.
- EVELYN BAILEY: So Bob Osborn and Larry Fine--
- BOB CRYSTAL: And RJ Alcala--
- was the triumvirate.
- KEVIN INDOVINO: Right.
- BOB CRYSTAL: And Larry Fine is still tuning pianos in Boston.
- And Bob Osborn was also a tax resistor
- and an anti-war protester, and the IRS drove him out
- of the United States.
- And he went to Canada and he got a job working for Canadian
- Bell, and he is the guy who designed the optical system
- for the cable for--
- KEVIN INDOVINO: Fiberoptics.
- BOB CRYSTAL: He was a fiberoptics genius.
- He's also the guy who tried to convince Xerox
- that they should get into the computer business,
- but they sold it to IBM.
- It used to frost him.
- KEVIN INDOVINO: Lesson learned.
- BOB CRYSTAL: Well, he worked out of this kitchen,
- and I worked with him, and he was
- trying to teach me how to speak amaslan and all that stuff.
- And he had a Xerox computer on our kitchen table.
- We could never eat in the kitchen
- because it was occupied by this huge computer hooked up
- to the phone system.
- And when Xerox made the decision to sell everything to IBM,
- they literally made him give back his Xerox computer, which
- was a keyboard built in, and a typewriter,
- and the computer would take over and type right back.
- And they delivered to him an IBM Selectric,
- which did the same thing.
- And it just-- you could see the steam coming out of his ears,
- going, they don't know what the-- they're doing--
- They'll be out of business in fifty years.
- And sure enough--
- KEVIN INDOVINO: Was right.
- So Let's go back to 1967 then.
- So freshman in college.
- BOB CRYSTAL: It was the best of times
- because it was the year of the generation of love, the love
- generation.
- There was a lot of sexual freedom going on
- amongst the under-thirty crowd.
- But as soon as people started thinking about their futures,
- it became paranoid.
- But there was a lot of free love going on.
- It was pre-AIDS and post-penicillin,
- so nothing was scary. (phone rings) I'm not us.
- I'm on call.
- They'll call back.
- KEVIN INDOVINO: OK so let's just talk to me
- a little bit about then being at Cornell University.
- There for four years?
- BOB CRYSTAL: Yep.
- KEVIN INDOVINO: Right, OK.
- Did you get involved with the CUGLF?
- BOB CRYSTAL: Sure did.
- KEVIN INDOVINO: OK, so talk to me about that experience.
- BOB CRYSTAL: It was--
- we were very young.
- Our faculty sponsor was Dan Berrigan
- We were very optimistic.
- He taught us passive, peaceful resistance.
- He encouraged us to go to the education route rather than
- the demonstration route.
- He encouraged us to ask for help from the administration rather
- than demand concessions.
- And it worked very well.
- And when I graduated, I moved to Rochester to look for work,
- and hooked up with Bob Osborn and Patti Evans.
- Patti Evans was a student on campus at the time.
- Bob Osborn was already a graduate student in physics.
- And I forget what RJ and Larry were.
- I think they were both graduate students, too.
- I think Patti was the only undergraduate.
- And they really were doing things like educating people.
- That's how the Empty Closet started.
- It started as a flier about what are gay people, why
- do we want to be called gay, some of the lost issues
- were why it's unfair why moral turpitude should not
- apply to us, why the arrests of the police department
- should not be condoned, and telling people
- that if you get into trouble, give us a call.
- We'll do what we can to help.
- But it was an educational thing rather than a newspaper.
- KEVIN INDOVINO: Now, moving to Rochester,
- that would have been, what, 1971? '72?
- '71.
- BOB CRYSTAL: Winter of '71, '72.
- kEVIN INDOVINO: So tell me, how did
- you meet Bob and Patti and--
- BOB CRYSTAL: They were handing out Empty Closets at Jim's.
- And I and I wanted to meet somebody
- who was going to do that because it was right up what
- I had been trained.
- I was hanging out at Jim's because there
- was no place else for a young man who didn't
- know anybody in town to go.
- There was Jim's, and there was the Bachelor Forum,
- and there was another one out at--
- I forget where it was--
- you had to get in a car.
- The nice thing about Jim's was you could walk to The Bachelor
- Forum and back.
- Those were the days when walking didn't hurt.
- EVELYN BAILEY: Was it Dick's?
- BOB CRYSTAL: No, Dick's was downtown.
- KEVIN INDOVINO: Yeah.
- EVELYN BAILEY: OK.
- BOB CRYSTAL: Dick's 43.
- KEVIN INDOVINO: The only one I know that was
- way out there was the Dutch 22.
- BOB CRYSTAL: That doesn't sound right.
- It had blacklight.
- It was two stories.
- You walk in, and there was a room on the first floor.
- There was just a bar, and you go up the stairs,
- and you could see the blacklight reflecting,
- and the walls were painted black with stars and Jupiter and--
- KEVIN INDOVINO: Do you remember what area?
- BOB CRYSTAL: It was on the east side,
- and you had to go past the Bachelor Forum to get to it.
- KEVIN INDOVINO: OK, I'm assuming the Bachelor
- Forum was on Goodman?
- EVELYN BAILEY: The Avenue Pub?
- BOB CRYSTAL: No, that was Monroe.
- KEVIN INDOVINO: Yeah.
- I'll have to do some research on that.
- EVELYN BAILEY: We'll have to do some--
- yeah.
- BOB CRYSTAL: But it was--
- but those were the three.
- And there was very little going on anywhere else.
- And I was very angry at the church,
- because the church was not offering a haven.
- I was on an ordination track back in the '60s and '70s,
- and I got very angry at the church,
- and even though there were people
- in the church who were very sympathetic,
- they too were afraid.
- And they didn't want to lose--
- what happened to me in Ithaca about moral turpitude
- was one of the ladies from the local church came to worship
- on campus and she plucked me aside and she said,
- I know you--
- you're anti-war, and you're a communist, and you're gay,
- you're a homosexual, and you're an evil, immoral person,
- and you shouldn't be in the church,
- but I'll tell you one thing, my son
- works for the Regent's Department in Albany,
- and you'll never be a doctor.
- Because she even knew I was a pre-med.
- KEVIN INDOVINO: Hm.
- EVELYN BAILEY: Wow.
- BOB CRYSTAL: And I went to the chaplain
- and said, (sound effects) and he said,
- I have no control over her.
- She's from downtown.
- I said, can you talk to her pastor,
- get her pastor back off?
- Tell her to back off?
- And he did and the pastor said, no she's
- one of the biggest donors to the church.
- And I said, to the chaplain, can you call the bishop?
- The bishop said, no, it's a pastoral thing from local.
- EVELYN BAILEY: Sure.
- BOB CRYSTAL: So I got very, very angry at the church at the time
- and came to Rochester.
- And so I didn't get back into the church until mid-80s.
- KEVIN INDOVINO: OK.
- Talk to me--
- EVELYN BAILEY: What was Jim's like?
- KEVIN INDOVINO: Yeah, that's what I was going to ask.
- BOB CRYSTAL: What Jim's was like?
- KEVIN INDOVINO: Tell me what Jim's was like.
- I mean, I've always heard about Jim's, but nobody really
- told me what Jim's was like.
- BOB CRYSTAL: I never went to Jim's on Stone Street--
- I never got-- or Front Street.
- I never got to go there.
- It was knocked down by the time I got there.
- So was the Opera House.
- But Jim's was opened up where it is now,
- but it was only one storefront.
- Right now it's four storefronts.
- It's been remodeled so you don't see that it's four,
- but it was just one.
- KEVIN INDOVINO: Yeah, where is it now?
- Because I came out after Jim's.
- EVELYN BAILEY: Liberty Pole Way.
- (interposing voices)
- KEVIN INDOVINO: So Eventually came
- from either Liberty or Idles or Marcelo's? or one of those.
- BOB CRYSTAL: I haven't been in ten years, so--
- KEVIN INDOVINO: So that's--
- EVELYN BAILEY: It was Marcelo's on Liberty Pole Way.
- BOB CRYSTAL: And it started off with one storefront.
- And it was just the bar--
- ran the whole length.
- And then there was double tables, booths.
- Not booths, but just two seaters all the way back,
- and then there was a little tiny dance floor.
- And then beyond that was the kitchen, which was I
- think maybe a two burner gas stove and a refrigerator
- and an ice maker.
- And that was Jim's.
- And then almost immediately they took over the next storefront
- and knocked out the wall and made it into--
- which was a restaurant-- or at least
- they set it up as a restaurant.
- And then they knocked out-- then they got the next one
- and knocked that out and made it into a dance bar.
- And then they got the next one.
- So it eventually spread out to be a fairly substantial place.
- When they got the fourth one, I was already not going there,
- because it had turned into a let's go
- hang out with gays, as soon as they
- started referring to me as one of the gays, I stopped going.
- Also, I paired off, and one phenomenon--
- phenomena-- of gay culture is you pair off and disappear.
- Yeah.
- Well, talk me through a little bit more
- about Jim's, about the kind of people
- that you were meeting there.
- I mean, what kind of crowd was hanging out there?
- BOB CRYSTAL: It was--
- every room had a different--
- and that's what was really nice about it.
- The front bar, the first room, by the time
- it got to be three stores wide, and it stayed three bars wide
- for a long time--
- the front bar was the bar.
- And people who tended to sit on the stool and lean on there
- and talk to the bartender stay there.
- And if you hooked up with somebody
- in the other parts you wanted to talk to them quietly,
- you would go into the one of the two seaters.
- The middle part was the dining room during the day.
- And in the evening, the music from the dance floor
- came in there.
- But you could hold conversations.
- And that's where a lot of clubby--
- you know, nightclubby stuff--
- not nightclub, social center type of clubs.
- Functions happen.
- People would go there, have dinner, and then
- stay after and having drinks, hear the music, dance.
- You wanted to get up and dance, you
- could go and get up and dance.
- But there were tables that seated ten, eight, or ten,
- and you could--
- it was, the colonials chairs.
- Who says people have good taste?
- At any rate, but we would hang around there.
- You could get something to--
- bar food to eat if you--
- I worked at the shoe store, so I wasn't getting there
- until ten o'clock.
- I was getting there cold because the last bus,
- Rochester is very inhospitable to people who don't drive.
- The last bus from Chili comes in at ten o'clock,
- and the store closed at ten o'clock.
- So I had to walk to Nick Tahou's to catch a bus
- from Whiskey Plaza.
- KEVIN INDOVINO: Yeah, yeah.
- BOB CRYSTAL: But I would get there about ten o'clock,
- and that would be just as when it was starting to crank up.
- Mark Hull used to have his own table.
- We joked about, it should be engraved.
- KEVIN INDOVINO: Why does that not surprise me?
- BOB CRYSTAL: You know him?
- EVELYN BAILEY: Yes, we've interviewed him.
- BOB CRYSTAL: Recently?
- EVELYN BAILEY: Yes.
- BOB CRYSTAL: How's he doing?
- EVELYN BAILEY: Well--
- BOB CRYSTAL: Did he--
- KEVIN INDOVINO: Besides being in a wheelchair,
- I mean he's still pretty--
- BOB CRYSTAL: Did he put his hands on you?
- KEVIN INDOVINO: Out there.
- He did not.
- BOB CRYSTAL: Then he's changed.
- KEVIN INDOVINO: I was expecting him to,
- because I had been warned.
- BOB CRYSTAL: Did he play?
- KEVIN INDOVINO: Yep.
- Yep.
- EVELYN BAILEY: Yes.
- The third room at Jim's, the third storefront, was--
- BOB CRYSTAL: The third storefront was the dance floor.
- And that was the one with the strobes,
- and the mirrored ball, the disco.
- That was the disco.
- And that was very loud and very crowded and very sweaty
- and towards the end of my traveling there,
- it got to be straight people coming
- to dance with the gay people, because the gay people
- are so free and easy.
- And it got to be--
- I don't like being a tourist trap.
- And Jim had started to age, and mellow out and be
- a little bit more conservative.
- And he was looking for what his life was going to be like.
- He was only nine years older than I am,
- and he was starting to wonder whether it
- was going to ever have a two car garage and a house
- in the suburbs.
- And so he was thinking in those terms.
- KEVIN INDOVINO: So when you first arrived in Rochester,
- and this is kind of an extension of what we just asked,
- what was your first sense of the gay scene in Rochester?
- Was Jim's it?
- BOB CRYSTAL: No, it wasn't.
- Jim-- I don't know where I got the knowledge from,
- maybe from talking to people in New York City,
- but Rochester had the reputation of being
- the oldest gay community in New York outside of New York City.
- There was a gay bar where the liberty pool is right now.
- There was-- there's always been a baths.
- Dick's was not anywhere near the first bar that was just
- a neighborhood gay bar.
- I went to Betty's.
- EVELYN BAILEY: Betty's?
- BOB CRYSTAL: Up on Lake Avenue.
- KEVIN INDOVINO: Yeah, it's--
- EVELYN BAILEY: Oh, Bullwinkle's?
- BOB CRYSTAL: Bullwinkles.
- KEVIN INDOVINO: Bullwinkles, right.
- EVELYN BAILEY: OK.
- BOB CRYSTAL: And Rochester just had that reputation.
- KEVIN INDOVINO: Why do you think that is?
- BOB CRYSTAL: Because we had a very active gay community here.
- Not gay community, we had a very active homosexual community
- here, people who knew each other,
- knew each other to be gay, who were not embarrassed about it,
- and we're not married and living in the closet.
- We had a lot of people like that.
- EVELYN BAILEY: Were you at Jim's when it was raided?
- BOB CRYSTAL: Yes.
- EVELYN BAILEY: What was that like?
- BOB CRYSTAL: I had just left, and I saw the cop cars coming.
- And I-- it was not my finest moment.
- I went home.
- EVELYN BAILEY: So you weren't in the bar.
- KEVIN INDOVINO: I would have.
- BOB CRYSTAL: I was in the parking lot.
- EVELYN BAILEY: OK.
- And did that occur often?
- BOB CRYSTAL: No.
- It only occurred when they wanted more money.
- EVELYN BAILEY: So--
- KEVIN INDOVINO: Pay-offs.
- BOB CRYSTAL: Jim was paying somebody off.
- I have no idea who.
- EVELYN BAILEY: OK.
- And were you--
- BOB CRYSTAL: And so was somebody at the Bachelors,
- and so was somebody at--
- even Bullwinkles, she was always giving somebody a free drink,
- and I could never figure out why a guy would come in and sit
- down and have a free drink.
- But even if it was only that, there
- was still ethical shadows.
- But I think Jim was paying big money in the '70s.
- KEVIN INDOVINO: I'm sure.
- EVELYN BAILEY: Were you in town when Whitey organized
- the Top of the Plaza thing?
- BOB CRYSTAL: No.
- I may have been in town, but I wasn't involved in it.
- I don't-- my timeline is getting fuzzy from this distance.
- KEVIN INDOVINO: So let's go back to then meeting with Bob
- and Patti and Larry and Whitey.
- It was on the Empty Closet when the meetings were
- and where they were.
- And I just--
- I happened to live on Plymouth avenue.
- EVELYN BAILEY: And where were the meetings?
- BOB CRYSTAL: On campus.
- In the student union.
- KEVIN INDOVINO: And what was it about that
- that drew your interest?
- BOB CRYSTAL: That was the kind of gay liberation
- that I had learned at school.
- And it wasn't very long--
- I mean, we're talking about, I got to Rochester
- in November of--
- November?
- October of '71, and I went to my first meeting in '71.
- So it wasn't like I was looking very long before I found them.
- KEVIN INDOVINO: What was your first impression?
- BOB CRYSTAL: Of them?
- KEVIN INDOVINO: Of your first--
- BOB CRYSTAL: Yeah, it was like coming home.
- It was young people, optimistic, determined, hopeful,
- and going about it with a plan.
- That it was-- what they didn't have plans for
- is what they were going to do if they succeeded.
- All right.
- So the Empty Closet was a flyer.
- They had no idea what they were going
- to do if it got to be the point where people
- wanted to take ads out in it.
- They had no idea what to do if they
- had so much stuff to put in it that they needed two pages.
- But Bob had a Gestetner and we ran it off on the Gestetner,
- and I can remember sitting there,
- after I moved in with them, I can remember sitting there
- with the candle wax trying to cover up
- the little hole in the silk because we'd hit the--
- IBM had hit it too hard and taken off too much wax,
- and we had to repair it.
- KEVIN INDOVINO: Is there, that you know of, any photos of you
- guys doing this at all?
- Somebody have any photos hiding in the back of their closets,
- or--
- BOB CRYSTAL: They may.
- I, when Bob died, I went up and got
- all of the photos out of his closets
- that I could get that he had saved.
- Bjorna might have some.
- EVELYN BAILEY: Bjorn.
- BOB CRYSTAL: Bjorn Borg.
- Bjorn--
- EVELYN BAILEY: Borg.
- BOB CRYSTAL: Borg.
- She's not Borg anymore, she had a sex change operation,
- she's Bjorna, and I can't remember her last name.
- EVELYN BAILEY: Do you have a way of contacting her?
- BOB CRYSTAL: No.
- But she's in Fairport somewhere.
- KEVIN INDOVINO: We can to track her down somewhere.
- BOB CRYSTAL: RJ I don't think was into photographs.
- Larry was, but I think he gave Bob all the ones that he had.
- KEVIN INDOVINO: I was just curious, I would just
- make note of that, that you have maybe some of Bob's photos
- that might be of interest to us.
- BOB CRYSTAL: Oh, I've shown them to you--
- EVELYN BAILEY: Yes.
- BOB CRYSTAL: I scanned them all in and shared--
- I think I emailed them to you.
- KEVIN INDOVINO: Wait a minute, you
- sent me a disk or something.
- EVELYN BAILEY: Yes.
- BOB CRYSTAL: Yes.
- KEVIN INDOVINO: OK, so I may already have them.
- That's right.
- OK.
- They're on a DVD, right.
- EVELYN BAILEY: Bruce Woolley.
- KEVIN INDOVINO: You gave then to Bruce,
- and Bruce gave them to me.
- Right, OK.
- Good.
- All right.
- So those are photos.
- BOB CRYSTAL: I'm trying to think of the--
- couple other people might--
- Joe Alongi is another--
- see, the problem is is that everybody was using--
- I was, Bob and I were unique in that we were the only ones who
- weren't using pseudonyms.
- And Larry Fine and RJ were using their own names
- on campus, but in a lot of stuff correspondence, out of town,
- until they graduated.
- Or until they got their degrees and certification.
- I think that-- yeah, at any rate,
- Bob Osborn was already so much in trouble with the government
- that he didn't give a damn.
- And he was so confident that his skills were so marketable.
- And I didn't give a damn.
- I just was so angry at everything.
- That I just said, I'll starve to death
- and then they can put it on my tombstone
- that I was starved to death by being forthright.
- So Joe Alongi the photographer.
- He had a camera everywhere.
- But that's not his real name.
- EVELYN BAILEY: Yeah.
- I don't know who that would be.
- KEVIN INDOVINO: We'll have to put something of Facebook-- who
- was Joe Alongi?
- BOB CRYSTAL: Yeah.
- He was an undergraduate in 1972.
- And he was either in photography or in--
- what did the U of R have that would have attracted
- photographers and writers?
- EVELYN BAILEY: Optics?
- BOB CRYSTAL: No he wasn't scientific.
- He was-- maybe he was pre-law or something.
- KEVIN INDOVINO: Police department.
- BOB CRYSTAL: Yeah.
- KEVIN INDOVINO: So, well all right,
- so let's talk about the GLF.
- And talk to me about your involvement with them.
- And again, what was it like?
- I mean, what were the kind of the conversations
- that you were having?
- BOB CRYSTAL: Bob was constantly bringing items to us
- from Albany, and from the city hall,
- that we should be discussing and we
- were discussing how to go about educating people, and getting
- people on our side.
- We had the Mattachine as a good example,
- but we wanted to be more active, and we didn't want
- to be straitlaced about it.
- I was there for the Mattachine's triumph, which
- was only one year, and that was the Stonewall Riots,
- was the best year for the New York Mattachine,
- because the government came to the Mattachine and said,
- the young folks are revolting, get them to behave.
- So Mattachine provided the--
- what do you call the people on that parade
- route that have the armbands?
- EVELYN BAILEY: Peacekeepers.
- BOB CRYSTAL: Well they were more than that.
- They were the organizers.
- They were the first year of the organized march,
- they were the people that took out the licenses
- and interacted with the police department and the parks
- department.
- And that was their finest hour, because they
- had been laying the groundwork for so long, and so
- somebody in my position, somebody
- who is not from New York--
- I was from Long Island at the time--
- but I was observing that.
- And then I went down for the Stonewall riots.
- First Stonewall Riots, I got there
- after it was all over with.
- Because I was a poor student, I couldn't get down there.
- You have to raise the money for the Greyhound tickets.
- But the second year I was there in advance, and Cornell--
- we did ask silkscreen t-shirts.
- They were lavender, tie-dyed, and then they
- had two male and two female signs across the chest.
- And there is a picture of Osborn and the GLF, and that's--
- EVELYN BAILEY: Yes.
- BOB CRYSTAL: We met, but that didn't count.
- That's not how I got connected with them.
- KEVIN INDOVINO: OK, yeah, I seem to remember that picture.
- BOB CRYSTAL: Yeah.
- EVELYN BAILEY: Yeah.
- So at the university--
- BOB CRYSTAL: At U of R.
- EVELYN BAILEY: U of R--
- BOB CRYSTAL: We met in the conference--
- EVELYN BAILEY: What role did you play in that group?
- Were you a speaker?
- Of Speaker's Bureau?
- BOB CRYSTAL: I was a Speakers Bureau, I worked with Karen,
- and Patti and I went to Brockport a couple of times.
- But we also went to the U of R, and spoke.
- We spoke at RIT.
- MCC was not in the picture at that time.
- We were also foot soldiers in Bob Osborn's campaign.
- I mean, if you see the picture of Bob Osborn marching to City
- Hall, that was '72, or--
- yeah '72, when he sat down with Mayor Ryan?
- Or was it Mayor Lamb.
- EVELYN BAILEY: I think it was Ryan in '72.
- BOB CRYSTAL: But at any rate
- KEVIN INDOVINO: It seems like a little early for him.
- EVELYN BAILEY: Maybe.
- BOB CRYSTAL: If you see that picture
- of Bob and RJ and Larry, there's a set of pictures of them
- in Albany.
- And then there's a set of pictures of them
- on Broad Street marching from the Central Trust Building
- into the old city hall.
- And when they-- on both of those--
- Pattu and I and Joe Alongi, several other members
- of the URGLF were there too.
- But the fearsome threesome were the photography.
- The newspaper, the media got a hold of their pictures better.
- KEVIN INDOVINO: Now, was this a march to city hall?
- BOB CRYSTAL: Yeah.
- KEVIN INDOVINO: OK, and what was the goal
- or the mission behind it?
- BOB CRYSTAL: To get publicity.
- To get an article that gave our side of the story.
- And it was to end the discrimination
- to get the city of Rochester to write a nondiscrimination
- clause.
- It was that early that we were asking for that.
- KEVIN INDOVINO: Yeah, we didn't really
- you ever get that until--
- EVELYN BAILEY: Now.
- KEVIN INDOVINO: Johnson, right?
- EVELYN BAILEY: Yeah.
- BOB CRYSTAL: Yeah.
- EVELYN BAILEY: Right.
- Were you involved in the radio show?
- The--
- BOB CRYSTAL: Yeah.
- Green Thursdays.
- EVELYN BAILEY: What was it?
- BOB CRYSTAL: Green Thursdays.
- EVELYN BAILEY: Green Thursday.
- And where was it?
- CMF?
- No, WCMF.
- KEVIN INDOVINO: OK, let's go back, why was it
- called Green Thursdays?
- BOB CRYSTAL: Because if you wore green socks on Thursday,
- you were queer.
- KEVIN INDOVINO: So this was a queer show, then?
- It wasn't a--
- BOB CRYSTAL: Yeah.
- KEVIN INDOVINO: Oh, OK.
- On WCMF.
- How things change.
- EVELYN BAILEY: Maybe we should institute Green Thursday again.
- KEVIN INDOVINO: So I don't want to lose sight of the GLF.
- We'll get back to the Green Thursdays things in a second.
- So you're doing marches on city hall,
- and just take me on through throughout your involving
- with the GLF.
- BOB CRYSTAL: And then the other thing as a soldier, that I did,
- was, I was the one who took over and handing out
- the Empty Closets in the bars.
- And I was also the one, when the police were putting the good
- looking blonde guy in tight blue jeans on Court Street
- Bridge with his thumb out, and people stopped and asked him
- where he was going, he would hop in and say,
- I'm going to Jim's, and if they knew where it was,
- he arrested them.
- EVELYN BAILEY: Wow.
- KEVIN INDOVINO: Police entrapment.
- BOB CRYSTAL: And they had a black Maria in RSBs parking
- lot, and that was where Jim's patrons parked
- after six o'clock.
- RSB just shut down.
- And the person giving him the ride would pull in and park,
- and he'd get out and he'd be arrested, put in handcuffs,
- and the decoy would take a little bow,
- and the guys in the black Maria would (claps)
- and then the guy would be put in the black Maria and left there.
- So the first guy arrested was in that black Maria
- for at least three hours.
- In handcuffs, on a hard bench, in a black truck that you
- didn't know what was going on.
- Not allowed to talk.
- KEVIN INDOVINO: And this was what, still 1970's?
- BOB CRYSTAL: '72.
- KEVIN INDOVINO: 1972.
- OK.
- BOB CRYSTAL: And what happened was
- is that as a result of our protests, first of all,
- everybody denied that there was--
- I also noted, and and tried to get pictures
- of, and I couldn't do it, the cops writing down the license
- plates in the RSB parking lot.
- And they had a little card file--
- this is pre-computer, so it was three by five cards,
- and you can pretty much see when somebody is getting out,
- he's got a little box with a lid that opens he pulls cards
- out and writes on them.
- You know damn well what he's doing.
- This is not just always discussing recipes
- with the cop next to him.
- So we argued that with Mayor Ryan also.
- We had more than one meeting with him, or we tried to.
- But we did do several demand letters to him.
- And one of them was that we demanded
- that this behavior stop.
- And he wrote back saying that there was no such thing.
- That that didn't happen.
- And at the same time, the sheriff--
- name just went right out of my mind-- his son was gay.
- I can't remember his name.
- EVELYN BAILEY: Pat Mahoney?
- KEVIN INDOVINO: I think John Noble mentioned it once before.
- EVELYN BAILEY: Yeah.
- KEVIN INDOVINO: Yeah.
- BOB CRYSTAL: At any rate--
- EVELYN BAILEY: And this would have been in '72, '73?
- BOB CRYSTAL: '72, '73.
- And what we did was we appealed to all the men
- who could possibly have any influence at all to please
- if they are out at all, tell people
- that could affect the police department.
- And as a result, those card files
- never did get acknowledged.
- But they stopped being used and in '73, late '73, early
- '74, Gordon Urlacher was appointed as the liaison.
- And he started off with me, and he moved over to--
- who took my place?
- At any rate--
- Whitey, maybe?
- EVELYN BAILEY: Possibly.
- It will be in the Empty Closet.
- BOB CRYSTAL: Yeah.
- KEVIN INDOVINO: Yeah.
- BOB CRYSTAL: But it started off, I
- was one who had the first meeting with him.
- So when he had his scandal, I was so sorry for him.
- The poor guy, he had a heart of gold
- when he was dealing with me.
- He was young.
- He was very sincere.
- He couldn't possibly believe that the police department
- would be doing things like that.
- And he promised that he would help.
- And then apparently he found out a lot of crap going on.
- At any rate-- but he was a good guy.
- KEVIN INDOVINO: Who, at this time,
- was editing the Empty Closet?
- BOB CRYSTAL: Jay.
- EVELYN BAILEY: Jay Baker.
- KEVIN INDOVINO: Jay Baker was?
- OK.
- EVELYN BAILEY: And you moved off campus.
- BOB CRYSTAL: We moved off campus because we were asked to,
- and Mark Hull let us rent for a minimal amount the building
- that he owned at Bull's Head, where his stamp store was
- upstairs from.
- EVELYN BAILEY: Do you know why you were
- asked to move off of campus?
- BOB CRYSTAL: I think because Joe and Patti were the only members
- who were still students.
- Again, it was not the University of Rochester
- wanting to help a community organization.
- They were very much, how much of this is a student body?
- And when we left, the students tried
- to keep it going as the U of R GLF, and we just--
- all the townies just formed the GAGV.
- EVELYN BAILEY: Was that women as well as men?
- BOB CRYSTAL: The first year, yeah.
- That was also the period when the women
- were pretty upset with us men for being gay male chauvinist
- pigs.
- KEVIN INDOVINO: Let's talk about the move, when
- you moved over to Brown Street.
- BOB CRYSTAL: Yeah.
- It was an old pharmacy.
- KEVIN INDOVINO: Yeah, did you still retain the Gay Liberation
- Front name, or did that stay with the U of R?
- BOB CRYSTAL: We left that with the U of R.
- That was intentional.
- KEVIN INDOVINO: OK, so what did the men's group
- become known as?
- BOB CRYSTAL: We formed the Gay Alliance of the Genesee Valley.
- So that groups could form under it.
- KEVIN INDOVINO: Right, OK.
- BOB CRYSTAL: But the name came from the--
- the big argument was, were we going
- to be the Rochester Gay Liberation Front,
- or are we going to be--
- my argument was Gay Alliance of Rochester, GAR, Gay Activist
- Alliance, GAAR.
- KEVIN INDOVINO: So when you guys were over in Mark Hull's space
- on Brown Street, you were already Gay Alliance?
- BOB CRYSTAL: Yeah.
- KEVIN INDOVINO: But there was a woman's group that
- went over to Monroe Avenue.
- BOB CRYSTAL: There was a women's group within the GAGV called
- the Greater Organization--
- Greater Rochester Organization of Women.
- KEVIN INDOVINO: Right.
- BOB CRYSTAL: And they were part of our group,
- but they wanted to meet separately
- and they wanted to be separate just to circle their wagons.
- And they were-- they wanted to ensure to all the members
- that they would continue to work with the GAGV,
- so that the GAGV would be the GLBT presence,
- but they needed to work their own issues out,
- and so they formed the GROW to do that.
- And there was a meeting still on the U of R campus
- when that was happening.
- I can remember Karen Hagberg giving me a ride home
- and tell me I shouldn't worry so hard about it, that it was not
- the end of the world, and that the women were not
- abandoning the men.
- My own personal perspective was at the time was
- the women were the grown ups and the men were the boys,
- and the older grown up amongst the men was Osborn,
- everybody else was running around, having a good time.
- Osborn was the only one who was working every day.
- And the women were the ones who were working every day.
- And they pretty much agreed with me.
- EVELYN BAILEY: And the women went to the co-op?
- BOB CRYSTAL: They didn't start at the co-op.
- They went-- I forget where they went.
- They went to Liz Bell's house for a couple months.
- EVELYN BAILEY: Could be.
- BOB CRYSTAL: On, not Gregory.
- What's that, the one way street that runs
- between South and Mount Hope?
- Sanford.
- EVELYN BAILEY: Sanford.
- BOB CRYSTAL: So I think they met on Sanford Street
- for a couple months.
- And then they found the coop.
- And then they got told that they couldn't use GROW
- because there was an organization already started--
- EVELYN BAILEY: Gay Revolution of Women was--
- BOB CRYSTAL: Was theirs.
- They were Gay Revolution of Women,
- and then there was the the Greater Rochester
- Older Workers.
- that had founded itself and had actually formed corporation.
- So they had priority, because they had a corporate name.
- And Gay Revolution of Women, yeah.
- KEVIN INDOVINO: Yeah.
- BOB CRYSTAL: But they also were involved
- in the women's magazine.
- That had a lot to do with it.
- And that was on Meigs Street, and--
- Meigs and-- Meigs and--
- starts with a C.
- EVELYN BAILEY: Why can't I?
- Yes, I know the newspaper.
- New Women's Times.
- KEVIN INDOVINO: New Women's Times, right, I knew that.
- EVELYN BAILEY: New Women's Times, right.
- With, oh, what was her name--
- Rose?
- Not Rose.
- Anyway.
- Yeah.
- BOB CRYSTAL: You should have interviewed us ten years ago
- when our memories weren't so bad.
- KEVIN INDOVINO: Well it'll all come back.
- After the interview's over, you're
- like, oh, now I remember.
- BOB CRYSTAL: Yeah.
- KEVIN INDOVINO: So, OK, so from this point on,
- you guys are off on your own.
- Pretty much, I mean the women are
- kind of off doing their thing.
- BOB CRYSTAL: So we did our best to improve the building
- to the point where it could be used as a community center.
- We are very optimistic that we wouldn't run into any problems
- with it being a community center.
- Mark was very paranoid.
- He rented it to us, he was very glad to rent it to us.
- And then after about three months of us talking about,
- well, we're going to have a dance,
- and we're going to use the storefront
- to open a counseling center and a youth center,
- and he what's going, oh, I'm going
- to have my house burned down.
- Because that was still--
- St. Mary's was the only really progressive force
- in that neighborhood at the time.
- You had a very conservative neighborhood,
- even amongst the blacks.
- It was slow to--
- that was the northern end of the white flight
- I had reached there.
- KEVIN INDOVINO: So then just continue on.
- I mean, you weren't there too long.
- BOB CRYSTAL: We were there a couple of years.
- It was cold.
- Mark did not pay for a lot of heat.
- So it was hard to have meetings in the wintertime.
- I was the first vice president and CW--
- EVELYN BAILEY: Michael Robertson?
- NO.
- BOB CRYSTAL: CW was the first president.
- Michael Robertson-- my memory is--
- EVELYN BAILEY: CW.
- BOB CRYSTAL: CW Davis.
- He was a rejected Mormon from Ithaca
- who move to Rochester to go to Brockport.
- That's how we got speaking engagements in Brockport
- is he gave us the name of professors who
- would be willing to invite us.
- But he lived in, what's the little tiny--
- Fancher.
- He lived in Fancher, went to school at Brockport,
- and he came into town to be active at Jim's and the GAGV.
- So I was--
- I know I wasn't president.
- But I was vice president for one term when we first
- got off campus.
- And I don't remember whether Mike Robertson was
- the first president and CW took over for me,
- or whether CW was the first president
- and Mike Robertson took over for him.
- It was something like that.
- But we did have one dance there.
- We waited until May so that we didn't
- have to see our breath while we danced.
- We weren't able to get a band, so it was just a stereo system.
- Somebody brought a stereo system from home.
- And it didn't work.
- So we started casting about for another place to go.
- And that's how we ended up on Monroe Avenue.
- The women had already been there.
- They told us about it.
- We knew that there was space available.
- And--
- EVELYN BAILEY: The story that's told, anyway,
- is the women had the heat, the men had money,
- and together you could form a marriage, and being
- warm and happier.
- BOB CRYSTAL: We never had a divorce.
- All right?
- There was still-- the Speaker's Bureau
- was the child that we had in common,
- and the women didn't want to do Speaker's Bureau just
- for women, and the men didn't want to do it just for men.
- We had to have mixed couples.
- We had a lot of fun with that.
- That was me going as the--
- I had a three piece wool suit with a herringbone pattern,
- and a silk tie and a white shirt, and brogues.
- And CW used to hang around in elephant bell bottoms
- and he had really, really skin tight
- down just below his knee caps, and then elephant bell out
- so that you didn't know what kind of shoes he was wearing.
- And he was a pretty skinny fella.
- And so he would wear tank tops.
- And the two of us would go out and I
- would be the raving queen and liberal
- and he would be the conservative.
- We had a great time.
- And the women would just be entertained.
- The women who-- there would be four of us going, and women
- would just sit there going, what a show.
- But it was making a point is that, education, Speaker's
- Bureau, was the heart of what I loved
- about GAGV and the U of R GLF.
- And that was education.
- And it's still true.
- The families the have somebody who's out and about
- have a much less problem voting for a politician
- who's in favor of anti-discrimination laws.
- KEVIN INDOVINO: What kind of reaction
- were you getting from the community?
- For being out in the Speaker's Bureaus,
- or being out there with a gay newspaper, or--
- I mean, it wasn't all, hi, here we are, now you all love us.
- BOB CRYSTAL: There was still the paranoia.
- There was still, until the '70s, there
- was still fear of loss of job.
- And so it self regulated in that,
- the people who were in the Speaker's Bureau
- were a certain type of people who
- didn't care whether or not they could get a license or not.
- And we were young enough that we were immortal.
- None of us thought that we were ever
- going to be mugged or raped.
- I remember Kenny White coming back from going to Florida.
- He thought that he was going to have a great time in Florida.
- And he was raped.
- And he came back and we were all aghast at that.
- I can remember when Ted Aldrich decided to pick up
- stakes and move to California.
- It was not because he was not being well received
- as a gay guy who was teaching kids how to dance.
- It was that he didn't think that there was any room for a dance
- studio in Rochester after--
- because we're too small of a city to support three.
- So he moved to California.
- But we had all this positive--
- we had the groundwork.
- Rochester was a city that didn't rape and beat up gay people.
- We had a police department that did blackmail them,
- and did round them up, and did get money from the bartenders.
- But we but it was all low key.
- It wasn't there was nothing New Jersey about it.
- It was all smug town.
- We were all-- we were doing things in a civilized manner.
- And so we had that optimism, this is a civilized town.
- We can do these things and achieve our goal
- without being in danger.
- We were wrong.
- There was violence.
- We just-- minimized it.
- EVELYN BAILEY: Was the violence toward homosexuals
- or toward women or toward gay men?
- BOB CRYSTAL: Queers.
- Yeah.
- EVELYN BAILEY: Queers.
- BOB CRYSTAL: And generally speaking, you say queer
- to a straight person who's willing to be violent,
- and you're going to get the picture
- in his mind of an effeminate gay man,
- and that's who was in danger.
- Kenny White was a very effeminate gay man.
- And he just didn't get mugged in Rochester, that's all.
- But there were twenty-somethings hanging around Jim's.
- There were twenty-somethings hanging around Bachelor Forum.
- That's one of the reasons why people went to the Bachelor
- Forum, is because it was--
- if you got mugged, you could always go inside
- and say, I just got mugged, and they go out chasing him.
- All right, that didn't happen at Jim's.
- If you got mugged?
- Too bad.
- You should have been more careful.
- EVELYN BAILEY: And Arnie owned the Bachelor Forum, then.
- BOB CRYSTAL: Yeah.
- But Arnie had some big friends who
- liked to hang out in the Bachelor Forum.
- Big nasty friends.
- I loved them.
- To the point where my friends were saying,
- oh, are you into that?
- but it was the sort of thing where even that was smug town.
- We were quiet about it.
- It was never going to make the papers.
- And that's what Bob and RJ and Larry
- were pushing against was, they did
- want us to get in the papers, but they wanted the good stuff
- to get in the papers, not--
- they didn't want any of the bad stuff happening.
- And so it was that tension which was an exciting place to live,
- when you've got two things going on like that,
- it's a great place to--
- I've been told that there's an old Hebrew curse, may
- you live in interesting times.
- I don't think of it as a curse.
- I think living in interesting times is a blessing.
- And I did.
- And I got paired off in 1976.
- And I disappeared from the scene really quickly.
- Curtis is a very private person.
- Took me three years to meet his mother.
- KEVIN INDOVINO: My next question was to be, OK, and take me
- through the '70s, but you just kind of just
- did that for me, in '76 you kind of stepped out of it.
- BOB CRYSTAL: Well, it took a while for him to pull me away
- from it I was involved in--
- in the late '70s, I got involved in the Corn Hill district,
- and that was also a new thing for the gay community,
- is that we actually had a Georgetown.
- But how Rochester can you get, that it was the third ward,
- it was the Corn Hill district.
- We had little retired--
- the first woman a pharmacist in Rochester was Katie Miller,
- and she was my landlady.
- And she was in--
- she loved renting to gay boys, because they'd
- so easy on her property.
- And she was a sweetheart.
- And there were a couple gay men who
- owned houses that had a rental property in the back.
- And it was just a great neighborhood
- to grow up, to have fun in.
- And the large part of the Corn Hill Arts Festival
- was the fusion of the arts community
- and the gay community saying, let's have a really good time.
- Anne Frank's husband, was his first name?
- EVELYN BAILEY: Who?
- KEVIN INDOVINO: Mr. Frank.
- BOB CRYSTAL: Mr. Frank.
- He was the de facto mayor of Corn Hill,
- and he was big, big guy with a big beard,
- and Anne was a little, short, skinny woman.
- Really-- but they were hippy dippy freaks grown up,
- and they were really good folks.
- EVELYN BAILEY: Were you on Channel 21 with Karen
- and I think it was Bob and Patti, a morning show?
- BOB CRYSTAL: I think that was RJ.
- EVELYN BAILEY: RJ?
- OK.
- BOB CRYSTAL: Now, Bruce and I, Bruce started the Green
- Thursdays on WCMF.
- EVELYN BAILEY: Bruce--
- BOB CRYSTAL: Jewel.
- EVELYN BAILEY: Jewel.
- BOB CRYSTAL: Everybody thought that, because we
- were in the era of pseudonyms, it was
- Bob Crystal and Bruce Jewel--
- KEVIN INDOVINO: Now, what year are we talking about now?
- BOB CRYSTAL: '72.
- KEVIN INDOVINO: 1972, still.
- OK.
- EVELYN BAILEY: Did everyone know that if you wore green socks
- on Thursday, you were queer?
- BOB CRYSTAL: In Buffalo it's yellow.
- I don't know why.
- KEVIN INDOVINO: I would have thought
- it would have been Irish, but--
- BOB CRYSTAL: It's if you wear green on Thursday,
- and it was specifically green socks,
- but it was green on Thursdays.
- Then you were gay.
- You're a queer.
- Because that was in my high school, too.
- I don't know about you, but--
- EVELYN BAILEY: No.
- KEVIN INDOVINO: No, well--
- EVELYN BAILEY: Nothing.
- KEVIN INDOVINO: Mine was late '70s, early '80s,
- so it was all about bandana, you know,
- what color bandana, or what side of the bandana
- do you wear it on?
- But how does Green Thursdays get started,
- and where does the concept come from,
- and how did you even get away with it?
- BOB CRYSTAL: Well, it was Wednesday night at midnight.
- So it was WCMF--
- somebody at WCMF said hey, let's be leading, let's
- be growing edge here.
- And back then, they were the musically growing edge.
- KEVIN INDOVINO: They would have been privately
- owned, too, back then.
- Yeah.
- BOB CRYSTAL: And they were this far away
- from being alternative.
- And so they said, sure, and that somebody--
- Bruce was a cardiologist at Genesee hospital.
- And pretty out.
- And they knew him, and they said,
- well, they didn't even know that he
- was thinking in terms of that, but they said,
- we want to do something weird at midnight,
- and we're looking for a program.
- And Bruce said well, there is no gay program in Rochester,
- why don't we do that?
- And they go, well, I'd have to talk to my boss.
- And it came back, and Bruce did it for almost four months all
- by himself.
- KEVIN INDOVINO: Now, he went by Bruce Jewel but what
- as his real last name?
- BOB CRYSTAL: Jewel.
- KEVIN INDOVINO: It was Jewel?
- BOB CRYSTAL: Yeah.
- KEVIN INDOVINO: Oh, OK.
- BOB CRYSTAL: They thought it was a pseudonym.
- KEVIN INDOVINO: OK.
- BOB CRYSTAL: It was--
- but it was-- when I came on board, then they said,
- oh it's got to be fake, because Jewel and Crystal.
- But he used to go in on Tuesday afternoons, when
- he had off from work, and he would
- go in and sit-in the library, and go through all
- the dumb promos that they got.
- They got all these forty-fives were coming in,
- and all these LPs were coming in, and he'd go through
- and he's listen to them, and if they
- had non-gender specific songs, he listened to them,
- and then if he liked the music, then he put it on.
- And he was the first person in Rochester
- to play "Sunshine on my Shoulders," by John Denver.
- Because there's no mention of whose shoulders they're on.
- EVELYN BAILEY: Wow.
- And what was it called?
- BOB CRYSTAL: It was called Green Thursdays.
- CMF couldn't go that far.
- But during the course of its existence,
- he explained that over the air.
- But it just never got written down anywhere.
- But it was Green Thursdays.
- After two years, he couldn't sustain it anymore at that rate
- of every-- every--
- Wednesday night, especially since he was doing it for free,
- and CMF was loving that.
- And so he went to--
- Marge David?-- Who was the presider at GROW in '74?
- EVELYN BAILEY: At where?
- KEVIN INDOVINO: At GROW.
- BOB CRYSTAL: At GROW.
- Were they still around?
- EVELYN BAILEY: Yeah, it would have been Patti Evans.
- BOB CRYSTAL: No, she was never president.
- EVELYN BAILEY: Then it would have been Marge David.
- BOB CRYSTAL: So he went to the women and said,
- we've been doing it for two years.
- I can't do it any more all by myself.
- I want to-- and you need to be helped.
- And Patti Evans and somebody else
- took over at alternative Wednesdays.
- But it was Wednesday night at midnight, it was lots of fun.
- I was the color commentator, he was-- it was his show.
- So I sat on the couch and laughed at his jokes.
- But we did some really good stuff.
- He read the news.
- It was the start of the column that
- is now in the Empty Closet of things
- happening elsewhere in the world.
- Because when he got done giving that stuff,
- he always turned it over to the Empty Closet editors.
- EVELYN BAILEY: And the women called it Queer Nation?
- BOB CRYSTAL: No.
- Women Nation.
- EVELYN BAILEY: Womenish?
- KEVIN INDOVINO: Woman Nation.
- BOB CRYSTAL: Woman Nation.
- Me
- EVELYN BAILEY: No, it was Queer Nation.
- BOB CRYSTAL: We're going to settle this one.
- This one I know Patti Evans knows the answer to.
- EVELYN BAILEY: It's in the Empty Closet.
- BOB CRYSTAL: If she answers her phone.
- But they took the alternate Wednesdays.
- But CMF taped everything on cassettes.
- And--
- KEVIN INDOVINO: Where are they now?
- BOB CRYSTAL: Bruce has them.
- If they're still in--
- KEVIN INDOVINO: Bruce Woolley?
- BOB CRYSTAL: Bruce Jewel.
- Patti, what, was the name of the women's radio show
- that was alternating with Green Thursdays?
- PATTI EVANS: Lesbian Nation
- BOB CRYSTAL: Lesbian Nation?
- PATTI EVANS: Yeah.
- BOB CRYSTAL: OK.
- Thank you.
- You go back to your internet.
- We're just having a discussion and I was having a brain block.
- PATTI EVANS: Oh, OK.
- (unintelligible)
- BOB CRYSTAL: OK, bye.
- PATTI EVANS: She is really into the internet.
- She's talking to people in Australia, England, France.
- EVELYN BAILEY: So Lesbian Nation.
- BOB CRYSTAL: Lesbian Nation.
- EVELYN BAILEY: OK.
- KEVIN INDOVINO: How long did the show then continue?
- BOB CRYSTAL: Another two years.
- KEVIN INDOVINO: So about four years total?
- BOB CRYSTAL: And CMF ended it.
- We would have gone on long much longer.
- That was one of the reasons why Bruce decided
- to go back to San Francisco.
- Was that there was nothing holding him here.
- Genesee hospital was glad to see him go.
- KEVIN INDOVINO: Is he still alive?
- Still in California?
- BOB CRYSTAL: Who, Bruce?
- Yeah.
- He's in Fresno.
- He's retired.
- He's living with his partner, Mike,
- and they just sold the big house and moved into a condo.
- EVELYN BAILEY: You and he, I think, came to an event
- at the Alliance, and we spoke about the tapes, from--
- BOB CRYSTAL: '72 to '74.
- EVELYN BAILEY: WCMF.
- BOB CRYSTAL: Yeah.
- EVELYN BAILEY: And you were sure--
- BOB CRYSTAL: I encouraged him to give them to you.
- EVELYN BAILEY: Right.
- And he has not.
- BOB CRYSTAL: Would you like his address
- where you could write to him and ask him again?
- EVELYN BAILEY: I would.
- KEVIN INDOVINO: Doesn't even need to send them all.
- Just some that would be a good example.
- EVELYN BAILEY: Does he still have them?
- BOB CRYSTAL: Unless he threw them away.
- I don't see why he would do that.
- EVELYN BAILEY: OK.
- And could you give me his phone number, if you have it.
- BOB CRYSTAL: Don't write on his stuff, write on your own stuff.
- KEVIN INDOVINO: I can give you paper.
- EVELYN BAILEY: Yeah.
- BOB CRYSTAL: Is-- wow.
- 6260 North Palm Avenue.
- Apartment 122.
- I don't know whether this is the current phone
- number, because he just moved.
- EVELYN BAILEY: Well I can--
- if he doesn't use a cell phone, I'm sure I can find it.
- That's 533 or 593?
- 433?
- BOB CRYSTAL: 433-5379.
- KEVIN INDOVINO: So that lasted four years.
- We're just kind of going with this
- in a kind of a linear fashion here.
- Back to the Gay Alliance.
- How long did you remain working with the Alliance in--
- BOB CRYSTAL: Started working for Monroe County in September
- of '77, and having an asocial lover
- and a full time job sort of faded me out pretty quickly.
- I was still going to meetings as late as '78 or '79.
- KEVIN INDOVINO: So you were pretty much
- there in the early years, getting it up and going,
- and [INAUDIBLE]
- BOB CRYSTAL: I'd say, yeah, by the time it was institutional,
- I was gone.
- KEVIN INDOVINO: Why do you think something
- like the Gay Alliance was so significant for a city
- the size of Rochester?
- I mean, does it surprise you--
- BOB CRYSTAL: No.
- KEVIN INDOVINO: That a community like this one
- would be so proactive?
- BOB CRYSTAL: No, it doesn't.
- I think that Rochester is much more liberal than it thinks.
- And I think the suburbs of Rochester
- are much more liberal than they think.
- Their own self-image is over-conservative.
- But if you ask them their opinions on topics,
- aside from politics, and I think that there
- are enough people out in Rochester
- that the effect of that is stronger here than it is.
- The percentage of gay people who are out in Buffalo
- is significantly smaller than here.
- I have friends who moved to Buffalo,
- and they're saying that people are amazed that they're out.
- I would never tell my landlord that I'm gay.
- Why not?
- Well, she's a conservative little Italian Catholic.
- So what?
- So's my landlady.
- That's what my friend told me people he was meeting.
- So was my landlady.
- And she loves it.
- She even has a gay nephew that she wants me to meet.
- You know, it's one of those--
- give an ethnic grandmother a chance,
- and she'll do matchmaking.
- No matter what.
- But Rochester has got a higher proportion
- of people who are out--
- I think Tim Mains, when they write his epitaph,
- is going to say, he was out.
- We've had mayors and sheriffs who have
- had gay people in their family.
- We've had we've had mayors who were
- hugely sympathetic councilpeople who were hugely sympathetic.
- What was-- lonely what's-his-name, even he was--
- the lone Republican on the city council?
- EVELYN BAILEY: Shiano?
- BOB CRYSTAL: No.
- EVELYN BAILEY: No.
- BOB CRYSTAL: It started with a D.
- EVELYN BAILEY: Daschino.
- BOB CRYSTAL: He's a defense lawyer.
- EVELYN BAILEY: Now?
- BOB CRYSTAL: Paul-- no, not now.
- KEVIN INDOVINO: Not Dinapoli?
- BOB CRYSTAL: No, Paul--
- at any rate.
- KEVIN INDOVINO: Yeah.
- BOB CRYSTAL: We had one lone Republican on the city council
- back in the '70s and '80s, and he that was his motto,
- is, I'm the lonely little Republican on the council.
- And even he-- put him up against any Republican
- from Syracuse or Buffalo, and he looked like a Democrat.
- He would look like a raving lunatic
- compared to some of them.
- Rochester may call itself Smug Town,
- but it is really a very progressive town.
- We are the west end of the burned overlands.
- We have come up with some of the most radical stuff
- in the country out of this neighborhood.
- KEVIN INDOVINO: I always say it's something in the water.
- BOB CRYSTAL: Finger Lakes.
- Water from the Finger Lakes.
- It's the feng shui of the Finger Lakes, they're all pointing--
- (laughter)
- KEVIN INDOVINO: Aside from getting out there
- with the Speaker's Bureaus and really addressing people
- at city hall about the issues, police harassment and whatever,
- what are some of the other greatest challenges
- that you found throughout the '70s and '80s and into the '90s
- or whatever?
- BOB CRYSTAL: Failures?
- KEVIN INDOVINO: Not failures, but challenges.
- BOB CRYSTAL: Well, challenges that we didn't quite meet.
- Until the last ten years, getting
- Gannett to run articles about gay people.
- And I think that our biggest argument with Gannett
- was, if we can fill the Empty Closet,
- why can't you fill one page in the B section.
- And we never did convince anybody until--
- ten years ago they started doing that one article on page 3B.
- KEVIN INDOVINO: With Deb Price?
- BOB CRYSTAL: Was it Deb-- no, no.
- I was shocked when the Deb Price column started,
- but for the longest time--
- it hasn't been happening lately--
- but there was on page 3B of the DNC,
- there was always an article about DOMA
- or Don't Ask Don't Tell, or gay marriage
- in Spain, or in Brazil.
- There was always some article.
- Sometimes they weren't so great articles,
- but they were actually looking at the gay articles
- on the newswire and actually using them.
- But that was--
- I don't know who--
- maybe that's because Gannett finally has a gay caucus
- amongst its employees.
- I don't know.
- KEVIN INDOVINO: Maybe they realized they're not
- selling as many papers?
- BOB CRYSTAL: Maybe they should start
- appealing to more than just--
- yes, one demographic.
- KEVIN INDOVINO: Right.
- BOB CRYSTAL: Some challenges that
- were hard fought and, I didn't fight them,
- but I'm really pleased they were won,
- were the gay caucuses and amongst the employees of Xerox
- and Kodak.
- EVELYN BAILEY: Were you here for CEDA
- BOB CRYSTAL: Yeah.
- I played bridge with--
- senility is an awful thing in the young.
- The head of CEDA was a friend of mine.
- And he--
- EVELYN BAILEY: Bob Sweeney?
- BOB CRYSTAL: No.
- EVELYN BAILEY: No.
- BOB CRYSTAL: He lived over where I live now.
- EVELYN BAILEY: The head of CEDA it was administered
- through the Urban League.
- BOB CRYSTAL: No, there was a guy in the county CEDA Monroe
- county CEDA.
- He's dead, and we now say that he was the memorial devil.
- Toby Hayes.
- Toby Hayes.
- Sweetest guy, most tolerant guy, very, very proactively liberal.
- Talking people into doing things because it's the right thing
- to do.
- And you'll make a profit, oh by the way.
- But we had a lot of difficulty getting
- Lucian Moran to do anything.
- He was a really nice guy, that he would never say shit
- even if he had a mouthful, but you would not
- get off his conservative dime.
- But he was not aggressive about it.
- If there was a liberal, that liberal didn't lose his job.
- If somebody spoke out for us, they
- didn't get unemployed real quick.
- He was just, eh, it's not my, it's not my--
- some of the ragamuffins who got promoted
- to take his place, and the head of the Republican parties--
- KEVIN INDOVINO: Yeah.
- BOB CRYSTAL: Enough said.
- KEVIN INDOVINO: What are some of your favorite memories?
- Favorite triumphs?
- Most exciting times?
- BOB CRYSTAL: There's a picture in that group
- that I gave you of Bridget playing soccer
- in Genesee Valley Park.
- That was just idyllic.
- It was a beautiful day.
- It's a beautiful park.
- The gays-- "the gays"--
- took it over.
- We owned Genesee Valley Park that day.
- It was just fantastic.
- KEVIN INDOVINO: Do you remember what year that was?
- BOB CRYSTAL: '73.
- EVELYN BAILEY: '73.
- KEVIN INDOVINO: 1973.
- OK.
- Was that the first time there was that kind of gay picnic?
- BOB CRYSTAL: No, we had done it under the radar.
- And Jim's--
- EVELYN BAILEY: --forever
- BOB CRYSTAL: --Jim's had been doing a picnic in the park,
- but they didn't publicize it.
- This was the first one-- and Jim's got behind it too.
- EVELYN BAILEY: The bars paid for the picnic.
- BOB CRYSTAL: Yeah.
- But it was-- we took over the whole park.
- If you were in the park, it was--
- you weren't cruising, you were eating hot dogs
- and drinking beer.
- KEVIN INDOVINO: How many people?
- Do you remember?
- BOB CRYSTAL: At least 500 that I counted.
- And and it was during the day.
- EVELYN BAILEY: Yes.
- BOB CRYSTAL: So that it was like, nobody who had a job
- was there.
- Nobody who couldn't get away from--
- you had to get away from work to get there.
- So it was-- again, it was the young, optimistic kids.
- but there were solid, steady people.
- I mean Whitey was there, Jay was there, Karen Hagberg was there.
- But they all were able to get away from their jobs.
- But it was a fun time.
- The radio show-- great.
- I mean, it was like, I'm a celebrity.
- I'm on at midnight.
- And it was a wonderful time.
- It was a time to be optimistic.
- The flower children were maturing and getting jobs
- and having an influence.
- As I said, AIDS hadn't arrived and penicillin had.
- And so it was free love.
- And it wasn't dirty.
- I remember sex in the '60s--
- I was the only person who didn't think it was dirty.
- I remember arriving at Cornell and going to the bar
- and getting picked up.
- It was a chanticleer.
- It was a dive, and it was dirty, and it was obviously--
- the cops were obviously being paid off.
- And so was the health department.
- And this guy picked me up.
- And it was like, eww, it was--
- I was out there, and he was going,
- no we've got to be quiet.
- Got to be da da da da da.
- Once we're outside the bar, you can't be flaming or anything.
- And every gay guy has to swing all the way over to this end
- before he comes back to where he's really is.