Audio Interview, Dorr Williams, September 4, 2013
- DORR WILLIAMS: OK, we'll do it over, if you want me to.
- EVELYN BAILEY: Today is September fourth, or fifth?
- DORR WILLIAMS: Fourth.
- EVELYN BAILEY: Fourth, 2013, and I'm
- sitting talking to Dorr Williams, who
- was a florist here in Rochester, had a shop on Monroe Avenue
- that I knew, may have had other shops prior to that.
- DORR WILLIAMS: I was the head designer
- at Sauers for Flowers where the millionaire's high rise is
- at the corner of Scio and East Avenue.
- The Sixth Floor is there now, but I
- had four windows on the corner of Scio and East Avenue
- that I did.
- And it was right across from Christ Church next door
- to Marissa's Dress Shop.
- EVELYN BAILEY: And Dorr has a tremendous memory
- for information about the city of Rochester
- and the people who were very, very
- much a part of society life in the forties, fifties, sixties?
- DORR WILLIAMS: Late forties, fifties, sixties--
- EVELYN BAILEY: Seventies.
- DORR WILLIAMS: --seventies.
- EVELYN BAILEY: And so he was just
- talking to me about Nancy Quince Fairchild Sibley Watson Dean.
- And you were telling me--
- DORR WILLIAMS: Not Quince, Prince, like the Prince Street.
- That's where Prince Street got its name was from the Prince
- family.
- EVELYN BAILEY: Prince.
- And you were telling me about Nancy backed who?
- Who did she back?
- DORR WILLIAMS: I think she backed--
- put her money into the Genessee Co-op,
- which was originally in the fire house on Monroe Avenue.
- It started upstairs in the firehouse,
- I think in the nineties-- early nineties.
- And I think she also might have invested something
- in getting Abundance started.
- The health food store on Marshall Street.
- She was very active in the Democratic Party too.
- And I think she was fully aware of gay life,
- because her four children.
- She had three boys named Fairchild, and a daughter.
- She had problems with her children, like everybody does.
- They were very unusual kids.
- And I think that the daughter might still be living.
- And is it possible that one of the sons is too, like out
- in the West somewhere.
- When her mother died, of course, I
- think she was maybe in San Francisco.
- She had a lot of problems.
- And she lived in my building for a while, the daughter.
- I can't think of--
- her last name was Fairchild.
- I can't think of her first name at the moment.
- But she was badly beaten up by a lover or something
- in San Francisco.
- And it may have shortened her life.
- I don't know if she's still living or not.
- EVELYN BAILEY: Now, when you were growing up in Rochester,
- was there any information out there
- or were people talking about homosexuality?
- DORR WILLIAMS: Well, yeah, because when I first
- came in 1948 I was looking for a job.
- So I looked through the want ads.
- And there were these strange little ads
- in there for companions.
- And my aunt managed an estate out
- on Elmwood Avenue at 3500, the McCumber estate.
- Her and her husband were there right across the street
- from Senator Keating.
- And so when I landed in Rochester
- at seventeen or eighteen, in 1948, I stayed with them.
- And of course, they were delighted,
- because my aunt only had the one daughter, Beatrice Child.
- She married Jonathan Child of the--
- it's still there.
- One of the sons still runs it at the corner of Marshall street
- and-- what is it?
- Rochester Fire Equipment Company.
- And supposedly they were related somewhere
- or other to Jonathan Child, the first mayor of Rochester,
- maybe a cousin or something, not directly descended.
- EVELYN BAILEY: Jonathan Child was the first mayor?
- DORR WILLIAMS: Yes.
- Jonathan Child was the first mayor.
- And the mansion is still there.
- I think it was the Edwards Fine Restaurant
- on Fitzhugh Street moved there, but didn't make it
- in that location.
- And so they went out of business.
- EVELYN BAILEY: That's down by--
- DORR WILLIAMS: It's a huge--
- it's still standing, that beautiful mansion.
- EVELYN BAILEY: Yes, behind the--
- I know where it is.
- I've seen it.
- I've been by it.
- Edwards moved.
- DORR WILLIAMS: My first time that I went there--
- I'm an astrologer too.
- I studied astrology for fifty, sixty years.
- And I went there to get a horoscope
- of the city of Rochester.
- And I met this Dorothy Francis that was
- at one of the theosophical--
- they had a Theosophical Society then.
- There were about fifteen or twenty members.
- That was in 1962, I think, that I went there and met her.
- I didn't go there to meet her, but she happened to be there.
- And then she wanted to know what my planet positions were,
- and I told her that my moon was in Leo,
- and of course, she was very interested,
- because she had of stellium of five planets in Leo.
- And so she immediately fell in love with me.
- Gay or not gay--
- it doesn't matter to her.
- So anyway, we spent ten wonderful years together.
- And then she decided to move to San Francisco or the Bay Area.
- And the last time I heard from her,
- I got a letter when I had my shop in Greenwich Village.
- And I told her I was going to close it, and she said, "Oh,
- please, come out here."
- And then the next time I heard of her daughter had called me
- and said that they had found her dead in her apartment.
- Apparently she had committed suicide.
- We were such close friends.
- It was really very tragic.
- And I often thought I should have gone out there.
- Maybe that would have--
- (knocking)
- --helped her depression.
- EVELYN BAILEY: Come in.
- DORR WILLIAMS: I locked it.
- EVELYN BAILEY: Oh.
- (pause in recording)
- DORR WILLIAMS: From the Seneca reservation in--
- where is it now?
- It's down in is it Cattaraugus County?
- EVELYN BAILEY: Yes.
- DORR WILLIAMS: Allegheny?
- EVELYN BAILEY: Allegheny.
- DORR WILLIAMS: It's next door to Allegheny, anyway.
- UNKNOWN SPEAKER: Yeah.
- DORR WILLIAMS: And his name was Kenny Toothacher.
- And I don't think he'd still be alive,
- because he probably died an alcoholic, like so
- many of the Indians.
- UNKOWN SPEAKER: Uh-huh.
- Yes.
- DORR WILLIAMS: But he was a delightful kid.
- He was only about eighteen at that time.
- So I went to all three of those Indian bars with him.
- There were three of them on lower Monroe Avenue.
- UNKOWN SPEAKER: Yeah.
- EVELYN BAILEY: Do you remember their names?
- DORR WILLIAMS: One of them was called a Friendly.
- UNKNOWN SPEAKER: (unintelligible)
- think about that.
- DORR WILLIAMS: It was called a Friendly Bar.
- It was anything but friendly.
- UNKNOWN SPEAKER: It's good to see you.
- DORR WILLIAMS: Yeah.
- Likewise.
- UNKNOWN SPEAKER: Thank you for coming in.
- Have a good day. (unintelligible).
- EVELYN BAILEY: The Friendly--
- DORR WILLIAMS: Yeah.
- EVELYN BAILEY: --Lower Monroe.
- DORR WILLIAMS: Uh-huh.
- It was an Indian bar.
- And someone that also went there once,
- they said that when they had gone there,
- that some Indian was carrying a Tomahawk for protection
- in a brown bag in the bar.
- But as long as I was with an Indian--
- EVELYN BAILEY: You were fine.
- DORR WILLIAMS: I was perfectly fine.
- Let's see.
- Where else did he take me?
- I can't remember the names of the other two bars,
- but there were three of them.
- It was as bad as Corning before the flood.
- Main Street in Corning had forty-six bars
- before the flood.
- Now there's hardly any.
- EVELYN BAILEY: Wow.
- Now you remember Front Street.
- DORR WILLIAMS: Oh, definitely.
- When I came here in '48, that was jumping.
- And my friend, Phil Long--
- it's too bad he's not still living,
- because he would be in his late nineties,
- but he would remember.
- He came here when he was eighteen too.
- He came from New York, because his uncle
- had some administration position at the University of Rochester.
- And he came here with him.
- Maybe he just came with him to see it, for the interview.
- Whether the uncle took the job or not, I don't know.
- Maybe not.
- But he had seen Rochester, and he got a job in New York
- with a Jewish family taking their retarded
- son-- in those days, people hired companions
- to take them out of the city and give them
- money to travel and go anywhere they wanted to, just
- so they didn't have to deal with their son.
- He'd remembered coming here and seeing Rochester
- with all these trees, what a beautiful city it was,
- because in New York, everything was concrete.
- And so he brought him here.
- And the kid he was taking care of loved it here too.
- It was so pretty.
- He'd had some education.
- He was very intelligent.
- And his father and mother had been lawyers.
- And when he was two, someone was babysitting him.
- They were on a weekend trip or something
- in New England from New York.
- And they were killed in an automobile accident.
- And so he became an orphan.
- And I guess his uncle just looked
- after administrating his money and so forth to take
- care of him.
- And then he got some education.
- And he got a good job as a pharmaceutical representative.
- So he made a lot of money.
- And he did a lot in meeting all the gay people in Rochester.
- So he told me an awful lot of things, especially about
- Ma Martin.
- Ma Martin sort of ruled the gay community,
- and I don't know if anyone ever said how she looked,
- but she always wore a dirty old wash dress
- and sat sort of slumped in her chair in the bar,
- keeping an eye on everything down there by the waterfront.
- And I've seen her because she was still living, I think,
- when I first met Phil.
- He was telling me quite a bit of all the things
- that he knew about her.
- Apparently, everyone knows now that George Eastman was gay.
- EVELYN BAILEY: I'm not sure that that's fact.
- DORR WILLIAMS: Oh, of course it's a fact.
- EVELYN BAILEY: How do you know?
- DORR WILLIAMS: Because I knew the people that knew what
- his tastes were, and so forth.
- And he would call Ma Martin, and she would pick out
- the one that would be the most sensible and reliable gay boy,
- that was clean and wouldn't cause any trouble,
- because she knew them all very well.
- And she would ask him, I guess, if he
- would like to go see George.
- And so George would send his car and pick him up,
- and he'd go for the night.
- EVELYN BAILEY: Are you serious?
- DORR WILLIAMS: I'm serious.
- EVELYN BAILEY: I have never heard anything like that
- about George Eastman ever.
- DORR WILLIAMS: Well, it's still kept very quiet here
- in Rochester.
- No one ever would ever face the truth.
- EVELYN BAILEY: Oh my god.
- DORR WILLIAMS: But he had--
- his tastes were explicitly--
- he never married.
- He had all these women, they came for tea and everything,
- but he was not interested in--
- EVELYN BAILEY: Oh my word.
- DORR WILLIAMS: You didn't know that?
- EVELYN BAILEY: Let me say this.
- There has been much talk about George Eastman being gay,
- but when I've asked for corroboration of that fact,
- people have itemized the number of women friends he knew,
- but who never got married and who
- had huge flamboyant parties.
- But no one ever was able to document
- why they thought he was gay, other
- than he never got married.
- He kept company with women, they thought, to put on a front.
- DORR WILLIAMS: That's right.
- That's true.
- EVELYN BAILEY: And the historical record does not
- identify any liaisons at all.
- DORR WILLIAMS: Of course, in those days, like in England,
- sometimes their sexual contacts with the aristocracy
- was limited to their male servants.
- They sometimes had a gay butler or a gay groomsman.
- It's the same as in England that you now
- see on Downton Abbey, and places and things like that.
- And that was very true of the aristocracy in Rochester.
- And there were many--
- I'm sure many-- now, probably David, my friend,
- would be able to recall names of some, because he was born here,
- and he grew up with them-- with the gay crowd.
- EVELYN BAILEY: Now, let's go back to Ma Martin's.
- DORR WILLIAMS: I don't know much more about her, except that--
- EVELYN BAILEY: She was on French street.
- And it was a restaurant, as well, wasn't it?
- DORR WILLIAMS: Probably.
- Most bars serve some kind of food.
- EVELYN BAILEY: Yes, I think Ma Martin's
- was a restaurant during the day and more of a bar at night.
- DORR WILLIAMS: Right.
- EVELYN BAILEY: Do you recall other establishments
- on Front Street?
- DORR WILLIAMS: Oh yeah, along the river.
- There was a lot of secondhand clothing places hung--
- because I used to walk around looking to see,
- like I'd go to consignment shops now.
- I was looking at those things hanging out for sale.
- I was a little prudish then, because I
- didn't want to wear anything somebody else had had.
- One of the first things I did was open,
- when I started earning money, I opened up an account
- at Edward's Department Store.
- I can't remember his name now, but this old gentleman
- that lived at the Ambassador at Oxford Street,
- we used to walk from there downtown to Edward's store.
- He was almost ninety years old then,
- when he was still walking down there
- to the manager of the hotel-- the manager of the clothing
- department of the Edward's Department Store.
- EVELYN BAILEY: Where was Edward's?
- DORR WILLIAMS: Edward's was the lower one.
- It was down towards--
- it might have been across the bridge,
- either near the bridge or just before you cross it.
- EVELYN BAILEY: On Front.
- DORR WILLIAMS: Yes, closer to down there.
- And of course, they tore all those down and built--
- EVELYN BAILEY: Sure.
- DORR WILLIAMS: --the hotels and everything.
- EVELYN BAILEY: What about Dick's?
- DORR WILLIAMS: Oh, Dick's on stone street.
- Yeah, sure.
- That was--
- EVELYN BAILEY: Or do you recall other bars on Front street?
- DORR WILLIAMS: No, because I wasn't going to bars then.
- I was too young to be interested in those things
- and not very much acquainted with the gay people.
- But I think I started telling you
- before this tape went on how when I first came,
- and I looked in the newspaper when I was looking for a job,
- and I saw where people were advertising for companions.
- EVELYN BAILEY: Yes.
- DORR WILLIAMS: And I mentioned this to my second cousin.
- She was very beautiful, and her mother used to model--
- my very first cousin, Beatrice Forrester.
- Her second husband, she married the Child.
- And then her second husband, they divorced,
- and her second husband was a Forrester.
- And she lived with him out on Allens Creek Road
- in later years.
- Anyway, she was a very beautiful woman.
- And she was still modeling for Sibley's and Forman's fashion
- shows when she was fifty-five.
- And she said, "I think I should retired from this."
- They said, "Oh no.
- It's your age groups that spend the money.
- And we want the clothes that they'll buy on you."
- Because she had the perfect figure at fifty-five.
- And so I learned a lot about Rochester from her too.
- And then, of course, she had been the secretary
- to I think his name was Hale, the head of the lawyers
- co-operative downtown.
- EVELYN BAILEY: Now, along with Ma Martin's on Front
- Street and Edward's down there, my understanding
- is that there were a lot of purveyors.
- DORR WILLIAMS: Yeah, there were.
- EVELYN BAILEY: Meat industry.
- DORR WILLIAMS: Everything you'd want was there.
- EVELYN BAILEY: And it was also called the red light district
- of Rochester.
- DORR WILLIAMS: Oh, I'm sure there
- were a lot of prostitutes, because there
- were odd-looking people wandering around.
- EVELYN BAILEY: Do you recall, Dorr, hearing anything
- about vaudeville in Rochester?
- DORR WILLIAMS: Oh yeah, in the Cook's Opera House was still
- on--
- Saint Paul runs into-- is it Court?
- EVELYN BAILEY: Andrew?
- DORR WILLIAMS: No.
- Let's see.
- EVELYN BAILEY: Cook's Opera House?
- DORR WILLIAMS: Cook's Opera House.
- EVELYN BAILEY: I haven't heard that name.
- DORR WILLIAMS: Well it used to be right in there
- where-- what is the name of that?
- Where they have all the events now downtown.
- EVELYN BAILEY: Manhattan?
- DORR WILLIAMS: No.
- The big--
- EVELYN BAILEY: East End?
- DORR WILLIAMS: No, right down there,
- where they tore down that beautiful security trust
- building, the granite one, to put that thing on it.
- EVELYN BAILEY: Midtown?
- DORR WILLIAMS: No, no.
- It's--
- EVELYN BAILEY: Corner of St. Paul and--
- DORR WILLIAMS: Yeah, across the street from St. Paul.
- What is there now?
- I've never liked it.
- It's where they have all the events.
- EVELYN BAILEY: A new store?
- DORR WILLIAMS: It's where they have all their conventions.
- The convention center, isn't it called?
- EVELYN BAILEY: Oh, OK.
- Yes.
- DORR WILLIAMS: That's all through there.
- That's where I think Cook's Opera
- House used to be, on the way to the library there.
- EVELYN BAILEY: And what kind of--
- well it's an opera house, but was there
- opera here at that time?
- What year are we talking about?
- DORR WILLIAMS: Well, when entertainment started
- in the late 1800s, I imagine the Cook Opera
- House had all kinds of things booked there.
- There were still old posters crumbling on the walls
- when I was in there.
- And the pigeons were flying in and out.
- Back in the 1960s, I was somewhere at a bar.
- And he's still living.
- I don't see him anymore.
- His name is Jerry Porter, and apparently--
- I don't know where we met, but we ended up
- spending the night together, and I learned a lot about Rochester
- from him because he was born and brought up here too.
- His father was a dentist.
- And so he was in the hippie era.
- And he thought about opening up a leather store.
- It was called the Leather Soul, and he
- was in that old opera house.
- He rented a section of that old opera house.
- And that's how I happened to be going through that place
- when it was falling down with the pigeons flying around,
- because he had a section of it for his business.
- EVELYN BAILEY: So the city must have taken that and kind
- of renovated it for small business.
- Were there other businesses in--
- DORR WILLIAMS: Not really.
- I don't know.
- It was just one section that it wasn't so dilapidated.
- I don't know who owned that.
- EVELYN BAILEY: I'll do some research on that,
- because vaudeville--
- I've not been able to find anything
- about vaudeville in Rochester.
- DORR WILLIAMS: For sure, because a lot of gay people
- would have been in that.
- EVELYN BAILEY: Right.
- And I had never heard of the Cook's Opera House.
- So--
- DORR WILLIAMS: Well, someone certainly
- has written about the Cook's Opera House,
- because it had entertainment from all
- over the country came there.
- That's where anybody went that wanted to have fun,
- I would imagine.
- EVELYN BAILEY: So when you came back in 1948
- and came back to Rochester, you had been in New York City?
- DORR WILLIAMS: I went down on my senior trip.
- I was from a little town called Addison near Corning
- in Steuben County.
- And we got on the train, and the train stopped right in Addison
- at that time.
- We got on the train and we went to New York.
- And we went to see Oklahoma!
- Oh, you know how senior trips are.
- They were unforgettable.
- I even have a recording at home.
- I don't go to many of my class reunions.
- But maybe I'll go for the seventieth, see the seventieth.
- I guess that would be it for 1947
- and seventy would be seventeen, wouldn't it?
- And there's not many of the boys left.
- Actually, there must be ten girls anyway,
- I think, that are still living.
- EVELYN BAILEY: So after your senior trip and so forth--
- DORR WILLIAMS: Well, I came back,
- and once I got out of Steuben County, I wanted to see places.
- So the first thing I thought of was Rochester,
- because I had an aunt here where I did land.
- So I came here.
- And my first job was with Albert's Florist,
- at the corner of Alexander and East Avenue,
- where the Bar Fly--
- or they used to call it the Bar Fly.
- I don't know what's in there now.
- It's still a bar.
- EVELYN BAILEY: Yes.
- DORR WILLIAMS: And every one of those arched windows--
- it was one of the Hiram Sibley buildings--
- was kept like a garden.
- It was this old--
- EVELYN BAILEY: (unintelligible).
- DORR WILLIAMS: Pardon?
- (unintelligible) was in there at one time and Harriet Thomas
- before her.
- And that's another story about her.
- What a character.
- She was still doing decorating in her nineties, you know.
- She had a clientele.
- EVELYN BAILEY: Wow.
- Wow.
- So Albert's Florist was your first job here in Rochester.
- DORR WILLIAMS: Yes.
- And Mrs. Sibley, of course, was still
- living in her mansion over there.
- And she wasn't very old at that time, I thought.
- I remember I thought maybe she was in her forties,
- but she probably was just well made up and so forth.
- She came in and ordered a corsage for Eleanor Roosevelt
- from me.
- I think at that time they wore three great, big lavender
- orchids that come right down the front of your bosom.
- EVELYN BAILEY: Oh wow.
- DORR WILLIAMS: It kind of covered up the whole front.
- And they were sizable orchids, generally,
- and I think they were-- of course,
- she was a sizable woman she could carry three orchids
- dramatically.
- EVELYN BAILEY: Well, now they don't cover up the front,
- do they?
- DORR WILLIAMS: They don't bother to cover it up.
- (Williams laughs)
- EVELYN BAILEY: And after Albert's
- did you go to New York City?
- DORR WILLIAMS: Oh, I couldn't get along--
- the old man that had run that place--
- it was just phenomenal.
- The ceilings were like fifteen, twenty feet high in there.
- And we had palm trees that were like fifteen feet high.
- For Palm Sunday and Easter, we carried them up the street
- to Third Presbyterian Church.
- And they just carried them through the streets,
- because you couldn't get them into anything.
- And so Albert--
- Felix-- his name was Felix Albert,
- that had the flower shop before he died.
- He hit his head on the back of a truck, and he died.
- And his mistress, who had been his sister-in-law as well,
- she took over.
- And she was hell on wheels.
- And I only stayed oh maybe--
- I don't know if I stayed two months.
- She was impossible to work for.
- So everybody had gradually left.
- All the florists evolved out of Felix Albert's flower shop.
- That's where Marie (unintelligible)
- started her place on--
- EVELYN BAILEY: Really?
- DORR WILLIAMS: --on Park Avenue.
- And Blanchard-- he worked there--
- John Blanchard.
- And--
- EVELYN BAILEY: So there were no other real florists
- in Rochester?
- DORR WILLIAMS: Oh, there were other florists,
- but all the successful ones evolved out
- of Albert's because that was the best,
- and they knew how to do things.
- And apparently the old man wasn't that hard to work for,
- because when Elsie (unintelligible) her name was,
- that took over, before long that was closed down, because--
- (unintelligible) was another one.
- He opened up right next door in the Valley Cadillac building,
- I believe.
- And eventually when he left, it died.
- The one I worked for, Sauers for Flowers, moved from East Avenue
- up to out of the Astor Estate, when they started tearing down
- the Astor Estate.
- That was the building that was where--
- well, it's called the Sagamore East now, I guess.
- EVELYN BAILEY: Now what was the name of the Florist
- that you worked for?
- DORR WILLIAMS: The longest?
- Downtown?
- EVELYN BAILEY: No.
- After Albert's.
- DORR WILLIAMS: After Albert's, I left there,
- and I went down in the Sibley building to Wilson's Florist.
- EVELYN BAILEY: Wilson?
- DORR WILLIAMS: Wilson Florist.
- And there were nine old ladies there.
- And they all hated one another.
- And every one of them told me, they
- said, "If you want to know anything,
- come and ask me, because she doesn't know anything."
- And then there was one old man--
- the principal thing in those days were funeral sprays.
- You sent out funeral sprays all day long from a flower shop.
- That was the biggest part of the florist business
- were funeral sprays.
- You had to learn to make a funeral spray.
- So there was an old man out in the back room
- that put moss, sphagnum moss over a board on a small board
- and tied it on with string.
- And that was the basis for picking
- in-- that would be kept wet, and then you'd
- pick in your gladiolas into that and other flowers, of course.
- And then the main thing in those days
- were, if you had any money, you didn't just
- have a casket spray, you had a blanket.
- And that was made on screen.
- You put like a screen for a screen door--
- you put that on a piece of canvas, and it draped.
- It draped over.
- And then you put it on like big sawhorses.
- Then one guy got under it, and they actually
- sewed these flowers on it.
- They pushed the needle through to the way up above.
- And they would be made of anything elegant,
- like lilies of the valleys.
- And I learned to work on those.
- EVELYN BAILEY: Wow.
- DORR WILLIAMS: And so--
- EVELYN BAILEY: After Wilson.
- DORR WILLIAMS: After Wilson's, let's see.
- Did I try to work in the flower shop again there?
- I don't think so.
- I got more money if I went over to Weed's Hardware, which
- was on Exchange Street.
- It wasn't far away, because I wanted
- to buy some nice clothes at one of the department stores,
- because I wanted a gray flannel suit, because it was getting
- close to the late forties, when everyone started
- wearing the gray flannel suits.
- There was a movie made called The Man in the Gray Flannel
- Suit, wasn't there?
- EVELYN BAILEY: Yes.
- DORR WILLIAMS: Yeah, probably Gregory Peck.
- EVELYN BAILEY: I think so.
- DORR WILLIAMS: He was such a handsome man.
- I had a crush on him.
- (Williams laughs)
- I loved him.
- EVELYN BAILEY: Many people did.
- DORR WILLIAMS: I imagine.
- This was a weird place.
- Imagine, me being artistic, handling
- nuts and bolts all day.
- You went around in all these places.
- You got a list of the name of the hardware,
- and a list of what they needed in their retail store.
- And Weed's wholesale hardware place provided it.
- So I filled those orders.
- So I made enough money that I bought some clothes.
- And then I went back to Steuben County for the summer
- anyway, before I moved on.
- But I always kept coming back to Rochester.
- Then I went into the service.
- And that was quite an experience,
- because I was telling Bruce--
- I think it was Bruce that was in here, or one of his companions
- there that day--
- I went back to my apartment and tried
- to find from my scrap book on my service this thing
- that they actually issued in the army about how
- to beware of homosexuals.
- And it had a picture on the cover
- of their conception of what a homosexual looked like.
- And he had wings.
- I hope I haven't lost that, because it was a gem.
- EVELYN BAILEY: Oh my gosh.
- DORR WILLIAMS: It's missing from my medical book.
- EVELYN BAILEY: Wow.
- DORR WILLIAMS: Because I was in the medics.
- And so I really quite enjoyed being
- in the army, because most of the boys that were in my unit,
- in the medics, they tended to be-- they
- picked that because it was less-- well,
- I had just two choices when I went in.
- I knew that I'd be in the infantry
- if I didn't sign up for a school.
- So I said I want to go to school.
- And I had a lot of background, and I did well in high school.
- I fooled around, and all I did was the school paper.
- I was interested in running the school paper and the yearbook
- and all of that.
- But I did get the highest mark in business law.
- I had this lovely, gorgeous Italian lady
- from Hornell, the Argentieri family.
- And there are still Argentieri.
- I met one of her grand-nieces here in Rochester
- while I still had the shop.
- She came in.
- I took her name--
- Argentieri.
- I said, you're not related to the Argentieri of Hornell.
- She said, I certainly am.
- I said, oh, I just loved your aunt.
- She was my favorite teacher.
- And with her as a teacher, I got the highest mark
- in business law in the state of New York that year-- '97,
- I think.
- EVELYN BAILEY: Wow, that's great.
- DORR WILLIAMS: So then they put my name up in--
- you know, what you got in the Regents
- in the hall in the school.
- And so the boys that were going to go away
- to study to be lawyers, they wrote in my yearbook something
- about you're going to be a future judge
- or something like that.
- EVELYN BAILEY: Not quite, right, Dorr?
- Not quite.
- DORR WILLIAMS: I'm judgmental, but not.
- Most gay people are very judgmental.
- EVELYN BAILEY: So in the army, you became a medic.
- DORR WILLIAMS: Yes, because they gave me
- two choices for school--
- telephone lineman.
- Communications, they called it.
- I said, "What's that doing?"
- They said, "Climbing telephone poles."
- I said, "Well, that's the first place you get shot off from
- is a telephone pole."
- So I took the medics.
- Of course, I knew I was going to pass out just talking
- about the blood flowing.
- And so it took me a while to get used to that.
- EVELYN BAILEY: Now, what was the attitude in the army
- about homosexuality?
- Did you run into any of that?
- DORR WILLIAMS: Oh yeah, you know.
- When it came time I could tell that my friends were gay,
- but it was never discussed in the service.
- But I know that one of my best friends--
- I knew he was gay.
- He was a sergeant or something.
- And so unfortunately, they were shipped off to Korea.
- And I probably would have been killed in Korea, because
- at that time, if you were a medic,
- and you were bending over taking care of somebody,
- they came up behind you and bayoneted
- the North Koreans in the neck didn't even take prisoners.
- They killed my best friend because he went about three
- months after it started.
- So he didn't have a chance.
- EVELYN BAILEY: So you were in the Korean conflict.
- DORR WILLIAMS: I was in the Korean conflict.
- So I was at Fort Sam Houston, Texas.
- My basic was in New Jersey.
- In the sand.
- I even knew all about that sand when we just
- had that big sandy thing down there, because I used
- to march through that sand.
- And you make one step and then you fell back, you know.
- And I only weighted a hundred and fifteen pounds,
- and they put an eighty-five-pound pack
- on my back.
- And you imagine me back trying to get through that sand.
- I did pretty good.
- I loved it.
- But I loved it more late in February,
- it was about time for March.
- We went to Fort Sam Houston, Texas.
- And it was spring down there.
- The gardenia bushes around the barracks and everything
- were all in bloom.
- And it looked like paradise.
- It was just gorgeous.
- So I had a good time there.
- Then I had gotten ill.
- I had had my tonsils out in the army.
- I remember they tied a bandanna around it
- and didn't numb them very much.
- And it fell off in the middle of it.
- And here's these bloody shears hanging out
- of my out of my mouth.
- And then after I finally got over that, they rolled me out.
- They strapped me to a gurney and put me in the hall
- and forgot about me for about three or four hours.
- And then they put me in the hospital.
- It just didn't heal.
- So they kept giving me penicillin
- until I got allergic to that.
- So I itched all over.
- And it was just one thing after the other after that.
- But that kept me from going overseas.
- EVELYN BAILEY: Overseas.
- DORR WILLIAMS: It saved my life.
- Eventually I worked in the hospital
- handling papers and things.
- EVELYN BAILEY: How long were you in the army?
- How long?
- DORR WILLIAMS: Oh, it was about two years,
- I guess it amounted to about.
- And they put me in a holding company,
- and I got worried about that.
- And so they sent me to a psychiatrist.
- And his name was Dr. Wheat And he
- said he wrote pages and pages about me because he
- was gay too, Dr. Wheat because I found out in later years,
- when I was in New York, that Dr. Wheat was
- famous with the gay people in New York.
- He was very popular.
- That's where he went after he got out of the Army.
- EVELYN BAILEY: Did you go there also?
- DORR WILLIAMS: Where?
- EVELYN BAILEY: To New York after you got out of the Army?
- DORR WILLIAMS: Oh, eventually, yeah.
- I didn't run into him.
- But I went.
- I kept going, visiting.
- My friend that's coming from Florida.
- He had my shop before I did.
- And I was down there.
- And he was giving it up, and I said, "Oh, I want that shop."
- Because it was in the West Village.
- He'd moved from the East Village over to the West
- because it was a better location.
- And so anyway, Dr. Wheat interviewed me with all this.
- And he put in all about my--
- because the one I went to first before I
- was interviewed by Dr. Wheat they sent me
- to the head psychiatrist.
- And I could tell there was something wrong with him.
- And I said, "What is wrong with that man?"
- They said, "Oh, he's on dope."
- He was in Korea, and he's addicted
- to two things they said that everyone seemed to know but me.
- So I went into the hospital.
- And I took all my--
- I had been collecting antiques in the army in San Antonio.
- Whenever I got free time, I'd go down to the antique shops,
- and I'd buy stuff.
- And I had filled my foot locker full of them.
- And, of course, when they came around for inspections,
- they thought I was stealing the stuff.
- They said, "Where'd you get these things?"
- you know, the officers.
- I said, "Well, I bought them downtown."
- And well he couldn't believe it.
- And then when I went to the hospital,
- I took them all with me.
- I set them all around me all by my hospital bed.
- And so they thought for sure that I was nutty.
- And then Dr. Wheat interviewed me.
- And so he said, "I'm going to line you up for a discharge."
- And I said, "Well, that's good."
- So they sent me to the holding company.
- And I was in there for a long time
- and through several seasons.
- And I got to thinking, one of these days
- they're going to decide to send me to Korea if I
- don't do something about it.
- So I went to see the captain that
- was the head of the holding company.
- And he interviewed me, and he was strange too.
- And apparently he was on some kind of drugs too.
- He said, "Were you close to your mother?"
- And I said, "Yes."
- He said, "So was I."
- And he started to cry.
- So we cried together there in the office,
- and he said, "I'm going to recommend you for a discharge."
- And I said, 'If you think that would be the thing to do."
- You know, I didn't want to act too anxious.
- But I was thinking, well, this is my way
- out of this situation, apparently,
- because I got everything going for me.
- So I came up before a board, and they
- asked my friend, my main witness,
- if he thought I was gay.
- And he said, "Oh no, I've known him for a long time.
- He's not gay."
- And so they gave me a--
- EVELYN BAILEY: Honorable.
- DORR WILLIAMS: --Section 8, an honorable discharge,
- not the usual homosexual one.
- It was an honorable discharge with full benefits,
- so I got out with the G.I. Bill so I could go to college.
- EVELYN BAILEY: Wow.
- DORR WILLIAMS: And I ended up going to a Bible college
- on near Lincoln Square, just a few steps from Carnegie Hall.
- I took voice lessons at Carnegie Hall.
- I had a voice lesson.
- I should have kept those up, because I had a good baritone
- voice.
- And any rate, where were we?
- EVELYN BAILEY: Eventually, you got the flower shop in New York
- from your friend, when he moved it to the West Village.
- DORR WILLIAMS: Antique.
- EVELYN BAILEY: Antiques.
- DORR WILLIAMS: I didn't go.
- He just had antiques.
- He came up to Rochester when he started it.
- And I went around helping him buy stuff.
- Then when I went down, he was having
- a bad affair with a black guy that had originally
- had his eye on me.
- And when I came back to Rochester,
- he took up with my friend, which was good
- for me, because I got rid of him, because he turned out
- to be a real problem.
- EVELYN BAILEY: So did you come back to Rochester when?
- 19--
- DORR WILLIAMS: I kept coming back.
- I came back.
- Let's see.
- The first time, I came back in '48 from college in New York,
- from the Bible college.
- I came back.
- I went back home and worked for a short time at Corning Glass.
- And they were famous for hiring you for experiments.
- And then after about three months, I got laid off.
- And so I got sick of Corning and got on the train and packed up
- and went to Syracuse.
- So I worked for a Jewish florist in Syracuse
- called Markowitz Florist for three years.
- And I loved Mary Markowitz.
- She was a wonderful woman.
- And I just seem to-- every once in awhile, meet
- some wonderful woman through my life, some sensitive woman,
- and she eventually committed suicide.
- So that was about after the first year.
- She was doing this big wedding in her family.
- Her niece, whose name was Cooper--
- last name was Cooper--
- she was from the Cooper family that--
- the Cooper's became millionaires.
- The old man Cooper bought the roof during the World War II
- off the old post office.
- It was all solid copper.
- So he was in business.
- And so his granddaughter married Donald Newhouse of the Newhouse
- paper chain, which at that time was the second-
- or third-largest newspaper company in--
- EVELYN BAILEY: The country?
- DORR WILLIAMS: --in the country.
- And they had the wedding in Syracuse.
- And we worked on that for probably three months
- preparing it.
- And of course, Mrs. Markowitz had committed suicide.
- So we had to do it all on our own.
- And my part in it, I had to make the centerpieces, which
- had a wrought iron trellis over this thing.
- And then Emkay Candle Company there made a light blue candle
- for it.
- Everything had to be blue and white for the wedding.
- And they protested.
- The mother of the bride and the mother of the groom
- protested, because there were no blue orchids.
- They said, "Well, where's the blue orchids?
- If they want blue orchids, you're
- supposed to have blue orchids."
- So, they just put the blue candle,
- and I put all big white orchids around it.
- And I made fifty of those.
- That was one of my jobs.
- Then I had to do ten four or five foot
- arrangements for the hors d'oeuvre tables
- of exotic flowers.
- And then I had to do, on one end of the ballroom--
- someone else made this solid canopy at one end of gardenias.
- There must have been a thousand gardenias on it.
- Of course, in those days, you could
- buy a gardenia wholesale for twenty cents, I think.
- So that was no big thing.
- And then my job was at the other end, making a rose garden
- with climbing roses.
- So I was pretty exhausted.
- I worked around the clock from all-day Friday,
- all-night Friday night, all-night Saturday
- night, and all-day Saturday, and all-night Saturday night,
- up until nine o'clock on Sunday, after the wedding
- was drawing to a close.
- And I collapsed, and I didn't wake up,
- I don't think, until about twelve hours later.
- EVELYN BAILEY: So that was here.
- DORR WILLIAMS: No that was in Syracuse--
- EVELYN BAILEY: That was in New York.
- In Syracuse.
- DORR WILLIAMS: -- that was in Syracuse.
- Syracuse.
- EVELYN BAILEY: And from Syracuse,
- did you go to New York City, or did you come back to Rochester?
- DORR WILLIAMS: I met a social worker, a close friend,
- his name was Ed Coyle.
- And his mother, Elsie Howett, and I
- became close, close friends.
- In fact, I liked her better than I did him.
- (Williams laughs)
- She was a wonderful lady.
- And then, of course, I had my cousin here.
- You know, she had remarried.
- And so I came back, and I went to Sauers.
- This was 1957.
- I met a very handsome young man in Syracuse.
- And he decided to come up here and relocate.
- And so I thought, well, I guess I'll go too.
- And his family was from Canada.
- He was half Mohawk Indian and and half French.
- His name was Michaud, and would you
- believe he is still living in Canandaigua
- with his third wife.
- And I talked to him.
- He can't communicate very well on the phone
- now, because he has emphysema, and he's on an oxygen tank.
- He was a chain smoker for years.
- His mother quit when she was, oh, I guess, fifty.
- And she lived to be one hundred and four.
- If he'd have quit when he was fifty,
- he probably would have kept living
- until one hundred and four too.
- EVELYN BAILEY: Probably.
- DORR WILLIAMS: And he's got those genes.
- So anyway, he must be eighty now,
- because I think he'll be eighty-one in October.
- And I'll be eighty-four in October.
- I was three years older.
- So I'm going to go down, and we'll
- have a birthday party together.
- We've remained friends.
- EVELYN BAILEY: So is that when you bought the florist shop?
- DORR WILLIAMS: No, I worked at Sauers
- on East Avenue for thirteen years.
- I was the head designer and did all those windows.
- And people came from all over Rochester to see those windows,
- especially at holiday time.
- And we had a lot of those people that went to New York.
- They said, some of my windows rivaled Lord & Taylors
- in New York.
- They thought they were so interesting and great.
- So then they moved.
- I think they tore the Astor Estate down at that corner.
- And they moved to the Valley Cadillac
- building up near the Albert's, where
- Albert's florist was, next door to Harriet Thomas,
- I think it was.
- And it was there.
- And they were going to sell it to me, but I didn't want it.
- At that time, I didn't want the responsibility, I guess.
- I thought I guess I wanted to go back to New York or something.
- EVELYN BAILEY: But you stayed in Rochester?
- DORR WILLIAMS: Huh?
- EVELYN BAILEY: But you stayed in Rochester?
- DORR WILLIAMS: Well, now this was--
- EVELYN BAILEY: 1957-58?
- DORR WILLIAMS: 1957, I was here until '71.
- RIT was downtown then, and I met these two professors from RIT.
- EVELYN BAILEY: Mechanics Institute?
- DORR WILLIAMS: I don't know.
- But it was an exciting place, because there was
- a whole community down there.
- EVELYN BAILEY: Right.
- But I mean RIT I think was called Mechanics
- Institute at the time.
- DORR WILLIAMS: It might have been,
- probably because of the Mechanics Institute
- in Massachusetts.
- Boston.
- EVELYN BAILEY: MIT.
- DORR WILLIAMS: Uh-huh.
- So--
- EVELYN BAILEY: So you met these two guys.
- EVELYN BAILEY: Um-hm.
- Let me go to the men's room.
- I'll be right back.
- EVELYN BAILEY: Oh, sure.
- DORR WILLIAMS: It's confusing because I
- made a lot of changes.
- We'll straighten it out.
- EVELYN BAILEY: Do you know where the--
- DORR WILLIAMS: I think so.
- I should know by now.
- EVELYN BAILEY: To the right, Dorr.
- (pause in recording)
- DORR WILLIAMS: Interesting stuff relating to--
- because I was quite--
- I went to the gay bars at that time.
- I made a lot of money.
- I worked overtime a lot, so I spent a lot of money.
- I bought a lot of antiques.
- And of course, I stocked up when I had a neighbor that
- wasn't ready to move.
- I had a beautiful apartment on the whole third floor
- of a big house on Dartmouth Street--
- 83 Dartmouth Street.
- Conrad Cobb of the Cobbs that Cobb's Hill is named after,
- his house.
- He was gay.
- And his house on Rutgers Street backed up to mine.
- So you could just go over the fence.
- And we were close friends.
- And he eventually moved to-- let's see.
- Did he move?
- No.
- I don't think he moved.
- I think it was one of the interior decorators that moved
- down by Susan B. Anthony house.
- I remember that he had rooms big enough to accommodate.
- His great-grandparents were the Burbanks.
- And they lived on the circle there--
- Plymouth avenue circle in one of those big houses.
- I think it's still standing, as a matter of fact.
- That was one of the first or second there.
- And I remember he had the portraits.
- I imagine they must still be somewhere in Rochester,
- because the were too big.
- He sold them when he went to Hollywood.
- He was, he wanted to be an actor.
- He was good looking.
- I don't think he would still be living, but then he might.
- What was I going to tell you.
- One of them fell off the wall.
- And he had to put gold leaf on them.
- Is this on now?
- EVELYN BAILEY: Yes.
- DORR WILLIAMS: OK.
- Because what a job.
- Not only did he have to put the gold leaf on the one that fell.
- These portraits actually had--
- I'd guess the frames on them were probably at least
- twelve inches, maybe bigger than twelve inches
- all the way around.
- He had to put gold leaf on all of them.
- Of course, it wasn't as expensive as it would be now.
- But it was expensive enough.
- And so he had to match them.
- He had to do the other one too.
- It was quite beautiful in the antique gold.
- But you know, he had to make it look right.
- So I remember him working on those.
- Let's see.
- EVELYN BAILEY: And what year would this be, Dorr?
- 1971?
- DORR WILLIAMS: No, no, let's see.
- No, I was in that house from 1962--
- no, 1960 to 1966.
- I moved to New York with all this--
- I rented the biggest tractor, U-Haul tractor trailer
- we could get and packed it full of antiques and things
- for my shop.
- My brother-in-law drove down.
- And the only way I could direct him in New York,
- not driving myself, was to go right down
- Broadway to Greenwich Village.
- And we ended up, we were driving down in the middle of Broadway
- with that big U-Haul truck on a Saturday night
- on Broadway with all those people.
- EVELYN BAILEY: Wow.
- DORR WILLIAMS: He didn't kill anybody.
- But he was pretty nervous doing it.
- But we got there.
- And my friend, the one that's coming from New York,
- I guess he'd just started going with Eddie then.
- They met me at the shop and carried everything in
- and put it in place.
- And my sister and brother-in-law,
- they wanted to stay right there in the shop.
- They were exhausted anyway from the trip.
- And so they put the bed that I brought onto the stairway.
- I slept under the stairs.
- It was like an apartment house on Bedford Street.
- It's just down the street from Chumley's, the famous place
- where all the artists hung out and so forth.
- EVELYN BAILEY: Oh yeah.
- DORR WILLIAMS: And then Paul of Peter, Paul, and Mary
- lived next door to me in the stone house--
- colonial house, probably Dutch colonial.
- So anyway I remember my sister saying
- that when they'd gone to bed, she heard someone outside say--
- right where we were just at, where
- they had gone to the Cherry Lane Theater, which
- was around the corner, I think at that time.
- I used to know the playwright.
- Circles was the name of the production
- at that time that was on.
- They said, "Well, when we went by here, that place was empty.
- Now there's stuff all in place."
- (laughter)
- EVELYN BAILEY: Yes, you had moved in.
- DORR WILLIAMS: It was just settled immediately,
- because I planned it so that I wouldn't have
- to handle that all over again.
- I knew exactly where everything was going.
- EVELYN BAILEY: Now, before you moved to New York--
- DORR WILLIAMS: You want to know about Rochester.
- EVELYN BAILEY: Yes.
- Now in the 1960s, early sixties, '60 to '66,
- you were here in Rochester, and you were a florist.
- DORR WILLIAMS: Right.
- EVELYN BAILEY: Did you frequent the bars?
- DORR WILLIAMS: Because I worked so much in that flower shop,
- I always had to go home about ten.
- But I had a friend, Jack Caine, and it's
- a shame he died so young, because he
- was he was five years younger.
- He'd be sitting right here, and he
- could tell you so much more than I could, you know.
- I'll have you come over to my apartment one of these days
- and get out all these pictures, because I
- got a lot of snapshots that you probably
- want to see, like pictures of the windows on East Avenue.
- EVELYN BAILEY: That would be very interesting.
- DORR WILLIAMS: Yeah.
- I remember doing one called Tchaikovsky's Nutcracker Suite.
- I did that.
- The Mercury Ballet always had the Nutcracker over there.
- And of course, Olive McCue--
- you've probably heard the name Olive
- McCue-- she was the one that ran the Mercury Ballet.
- And of course, all the male dancers naturally were gay.
- George Francis-- he was a teacher there and always had
- gay roles--
- I mean prominent roles.
- And I know he was--
- when Olive McCue came in, my friend
- Joanne, she's very artistic, she made all these little figures
- for my exhibit.
- And she's still living over on St. Paul Street.
- And she made--
- I found this sort of a stuffed fabric mouse,
- and she cut off the heads of them and made one mouse king,
- with a multiple-headed mouse was in it.
- A scary looking mouse.
- And she came in, and because George Francis
- had that role in the Mercury Ballet,
- she bought it for him as a Christmas present.
- And this was all done with Dolomite Company--
- you've probably heard of that.
- They made this spun glass.
- And this thing was gorgeous, because I
- used all these different colored spun glass in this.
- And it glistened, never knowing at that time that it was glass,
- and if it got into your system, if you breathe that
- into your system, and got it into your lungs,
- it would kill you.
- And here I'm wading in it all over through those windows.
- EVELYN BAILEY: Now, when you returned from New York--
- well, you went to New York in 1966.
- When did you come back to Rochester again?
- DORR WILLIAMS: Oh, let's see.
- I came back in about '69, I think.
- I kept coming back because the Sauers kept coming back to work
- because they needed me for my--
- it's what I did.
- EVELYN BAILEY: Right.
- DORR WILLIAMS: And that helped support.
- And while I was here, I'd buy things for the shop.
- So it lasted two or three years, that I kept going,
- traveling back and forth.
- EVELYN BAILEY: Were you in New York when Stonewall happened?
- DORR WILLIAMS: Oh yeah.
- I think I was--
- in '69-- that was when it happened, in '69.
- EVELYN BAILEY: Right.
- DORR WILLIAMS: I think I just happened to be visiting there
- in New York at that time.
- I was living in Rochester, I think.
- And maybe I was still living in New York, but not in the shop.
- But I remember seeing them, and I wondered what was going on,
- because they were parading through the street
- in the daytime.
- And that was the first protest against the police.
- So I witnessed that, yeah.
- EVELYN BAILEY: And what was--
- DORR WILLIAMS: I never went to the Stonewall--
- it was just down the street--
- because my favorite hangout was, oh, just
- a couple of doors from there called the Ninth Circle.
- And it was more of an interesting bar to me
- than an all-gay bar, because I liked meeting so many people.
- This was a busy place.
- It had big barrels of peanuts.
- And then when you ate the peanuts, they were free.
- And when you ate them, you threw the shucks on the floor,
- so it got deeper and deeper.
- And I liked that atmosphere, because in Syracuse they
- did the same thing with sawdust in this place called
- Kelly's, where I used to go and drink with the Irish on Salina
- Street.
- EVELYN BAILEY: So you observed the march.
- DORR WILLIAMS: Yes.
- EVELYN BAILEY: The night after Stonewall,
- because the night Stonewall took place,
- the people were arrested.
- And people gathered outside, and I
- guess they did march around the block.
- And they kept coming back in front of the Stonewall Inn.
- But then, the following night, there was another march,
- a candlelight march.
- DORR WILLIAMS: I don't think I saw the candlelight one.
- This was in the daytime.
- EVELYN BAILEY: OK.
- OK.
- DORR WILLIAMS: I probably ran into it
- because I was going to go to the Ninth Circle,
- because that was my favorite hangout.
- There were gay people there, too.
- But it was a mixture.
- I would meet artists.
- And I was more interested in meeting a variety of people.
- I've always been that way.
- The same way with the bar--
- I didn't always go to strictly gay bars in Rochester.
- If I was our for eight hours, from four in the afternoon,
- if I left Sauers early and waited until midnight,
- one of my favorite places where there was everybody imaginable
- was right across the alley from Sibley's-- was the 25 Club.
- You'd better put that down, because that's
- where all the gay people went eventually, because you
- went over there to eat.
- You got a delicious meal for two dollars at the 25 Club.
- EVELYN BAILEY: And when did you buy your shop on Monroe?
- DORR WILLIAMS: Oh I started working for McGregor's when
- I came back in '70, first I told you
- that I prepared to teach at RIT.
- I got all the courses planned and everything.
- And I was going to have classrooms downtown, and so
- forth.
- And not enough people signed up for the course,
- because at that time, I don't know, probably the same way
- now.
- You know how those colleges they never change anything.
- There are rules and regulations that you couldn't advertise
- above any other course, which is so stupid because people
- that time, in 1970s, they thought
- when it said floral design, that it was drawing flowers.
- They didn't know what floral design is.
- And thousands of people in the United States
- still call a flower arrangement a plant.
- They don't even know the term flower arrangement.
- EVELYN BAILEY: Yeah.
- DORR WILLIAMS: I would imagine probably
- in the Midwest and the South they still don't know.
- But--
- EVELYN BAILEY: So this course didn't go.
- DORR WILLIAMS: It didn't go.
- And this was in '71.
- I had been planning it from '70 to '71,
- working with these two people.
- One of them was Peter Vogelaar.
- You can put that down because, he's still an artist,
- and I think he's still painting in Rochester somewhere.
- He used to have a studio on Main Street.
- He was a great guy.
- I'd love to see him--
- Peter Vogelaar.
- And I think it's spelled V-O-G-E-L-E-E-R.
- It's a Dutch name.
- Nice guy.
- And I can't remember the name of the head of the department.
- He was swell too.
- And I was so thrilled about starting that course.
- And they ran it.
- They kept running it in their catalog for a number of years,
- but still nobody knew.
- But now, my god, there'd be more people signed up for it
- than I could handle, because everyone knows
- what floral design is now.
- Especially with this new ikebana craze now--
- EVELYN BAILEY: Yes.
- DORR WILLIAMS: --which I've taken up somewhat.
- I was going to join the ikebana society,
- but they're a little uppy at that ikebana society.
- I don't want any uppy-ishness.
- I've never been into that.
- EVELYN BAILEY: So when the RIT course didn't go,
- is that when you bought the flower shop?
- DORR WILLIAMS: I was still working at Sauers.
- And they sold to somebody, just impossible people.
- And I left there.
- And when I came back from New York the second time--
- I went to New York, and I worked at Bloomingdale's.
- And I worked for a florist out in Pelham
- on the New Haven train.
- I loved this place because it was beautiful.
- It was a little town called Pelham--
- lovely place.
- And there was one place that she had been there
- since the first depression in the thirties.
- Her family was an old family.
- They lost their money, but they let her stay on and rent rooms
- in this mansion.
- And I lived there.
- And then when I wanted to go visit my friends in New York,
- I'd get on the New Haven train for the evening and go down,
- and they ran all night.
- And then I'd come back into the town
- and work at that flower shop.
- And I was there a year in Pelham.
- I might have stayed for many years.
- But I had an Italian boss.
- He'd have done anything in the world for me.
- And I think if he wasn't gay, he was bisexual.
- But I couldn't get involved in that,
- because he had a wife and seven children on Long Island.
- I'm too smart for that.
- He just exploded.
- I guess it was mainly he had a fifteen-year-old daughter,
- and she was diagnosed with cancer.
- And he got to be impossible to be around,
- so I left New York in '72 and came back to Rochester.
- And my friend Jack Caine, that I mentioned
- before, he knew Werth Catlan that had a flower
- called (unintelligible) on Main Street in Pittsford,
- next door to St. Louis Episcopal Church.
- And of course Father Ed I'm sure was gay.
- And we had quite a circle of interesting friends there.
- And I worked for Werth for three years.
- And then he found out that Mrs. McGregor had died,
- and they needed somebody to manage that shop
- on Monroe Avenue.
- So I went down, and they hired me
- right away because of the experience I had.
- And then I proceeded to take over the store.
- And then in 1978, I changed the name to the Dorr Collection.
- That's how that all came about.
- EVELYN BAILEY: Now, Dorr, you mentioned
- the first Mayor of Rochester was Jonathan Child.
- Who was the second mayor?
- Do you remember?
- DORR WILLIAMS: Well, I say the first mayor,
- but maybe it wasn't the first mayor.
- But I think it was, because it was incorporated as a city
- in I think the same year that Victoria took the throne.
- It was 1836, or something like that.
- EVELYN BAILEY: Were you here in town
- when Mayor Barry was mayor?
- DORR WILLIAMS: Oh yeah.
- Oh yeah.
- EVELYN BAILEY: And Steve May?
- DORR WILLIAMS: Yes.
- EVELYN BAILEY: And I've heard that those two were--
- DORR WILLIAMS: They're both gay.
- EVELYN BAILEY: And how would you know that?
- DORR WILLIAMS: Because of the speaking of the people
- that I worked with.
- They would refer to it.
- And the head designer before me, before he died, at Sauers,
- his name was Herman Zahn.
- On You'd better put that down.
- He was famous.
- We'd have parties in the store, and he'd still
- get in drag, but for the party in the store.
- He was hysterically funny.
- And he'd go through this Catholic ritual about
- (Williams sings) where is the hell is the incense pot?
- I threw it out the window because it got too goddamned
- hot.
- (laughter)
- Oh, he was a delightful man.
- And he just loved me.
- And he said, oh god has sent you to work beside me in my old age
- and help me.
- And you know I'd do all the--
- he was getting too tired.
- And he kept a bottle of imperial whiskey under the counter
- all the time to give him inspiration.
- Then he wanted to ask me if I want some.
- And I'd say, no, I don't need that stuff.
- All it'd do is make me drunk.
- It doesn't inspire me a bit.
- EVELYN BAILEY: So did you ever think in your lifetime
- you would see the advancement of gay rights the way
- it has happened?
- DORR WILLIAMS: Somehow.
- Not to the extent that it has, but I
- knew from my exposure to New York that it had to happen,
- because, you know, I mean, there was so much
- gay life in New York, and there were so many bars.
- Living in New York was it was a good experience for me
- and going to all these different places in the Village,
- because I used to go to Chumley's.
- And Chumley's-- unfortunately, the people I should have been
- meeting at Chumley's like Bob Dylan, and so forth--
- that was his favorite hangout.
- And I would close my shop at ten o'clock.
- I'd go around six, and have dinner at Chumley's-- fabulous.
- One of my favorites was Indonesian rice with beef,
- and it had a poached egg on top.
- And I guess you got a cucumber salad with it and a drink.
- The whole thing was only four dollars.
- And it was delicious.
- And that's the way everything was at that time--
- these specialty restaurants down there.
- I used to go to a Mexican place over near the White Horse
- Tavern that was still operating at that time.
- And that was a writer's hangout.
- That's where Dylan Thomas, the Welsh poet, I think
- drank sixteen shots in a row, and it killed him.
- EVELYN BAILEY: Wow.
- DORR WILLIAMS: I don't know if he died in this saloon or not.
- I can't remember.
- EVELYN BAILEY: So you, yourself, never--
- do you have a partner now?
- DORR WILLIAMS: No, I've never had a partner.
- EVELYN BAILEY: OK.
- DORR WILLIAMS: I always dreamed of it
- and thought eventually it was going to happen.
- But I always put my creativity ahead.
- I think I knew intuitively that I would have to cater--
- a partner means--
- EVELYN BAILEY: Yes.
- DORR WILLIAMS: --limitations, because I
- am too interested in my art to be cooking and waiting
- on someone all the time.
- And I'm a good cook, and they'd be demanding, why don't you
- cook this?
- Why don't you cook that?
- And I'd like to cook-- have a party, or something like that.
- But every morning get up and cook three meals?
- Oh no, forget it.
- You get into that if you have a partner.
- You have to be somewhat selfish.
- I don't consider myself a selfish person,
- because I've given everything away
- that I've ever had in my life.
- But everything flows into me, because I
- believe in that theosophical belief that what you give out
- flows back.
- I think it's the Unity, like across the street.
- I think they believe that too.
- Right.
- Right.
- Were you ever or did you ever experience being
- harassed because you were gay?
- DORR WILLIAMS: Oh yeah, here.
- Here in Rochester, it was quite amusing.
- This was in 1970s when bell bottom trousers really became--
- and I went to New York.
- I bought all that stuff to wear.
- In fact, I was approached by Eastman Kodak.
- They had offices that looked out on East Avenue.
- And they saw me walking up and down
- East Avenue dressed in Edwardian costume,
- with a stovepipe hat and a pipe.
- I was smoking a pipe at Christmas time, dressed
- just like I was right out of Charles Dickens.
- And they saw me, and they came down from their offices
- and asked me to come up.
- And they wanted me to pose for possible billboards
- in Times Square in New York.
- And I never followed it up.
- People said, "You'd have been famous, you stupid.
- Why don't you--" because I never saw the value of anything
- like that.
- It's just if something happened, it happened.
- But I was too interested in my art.
- If I got interested in my art, and I'm still that way.
- I'm not through yet.
- I'm planning to have some exhibitions or something.
- I really am.
- All I got to do now is to find out
- through this, somehow or other, how
- to get some a good primary doctor
- and get to the bottom of these little aggravations
- I have, so I can get back to work,
- because I was even thinking about working a few hours a day
- for Wegmans.
- But I don't want to get involved in Wegmans.
- I want to be free.
- I've always been-- even while I worked for other people,
- I always demand my freedom.
- And no one ever told me that you here's
- twelve or fifteen blossoms, put that into our arrangement.
- Oh no, I wouldn't work in a place like that.
- Where did they tell me that they did that?
- They did that at some florist here in Rochester.
- I said, oh god, I would never.
- I would never work one day for somebody
- that did that, because I have to have scores of plant material
- around me.
- And my apartment is a mess all the time,
- because I have containers here and containers there and some
- with this thing in it and something, because I go out
- and gather stuff in nature and from all the different places
- where I can buy things reasonably priced.
- And I have them there because they inspire me,
- to have all these materials around me.
- And you just can't have a neat place.
- EVELYN BAILEY: Yeah.
- So Dorr, when you look back on your life,
- what are you most proud of?
- DORR WILLIAMS: That's an interesting question.
- I think I'm the most proud of helping everybody
- on the street.
- Almost always, if someone asked me for one dollar or two,
- I'd give it to them if I have it.
- And I did that in New York.
- This is one example that is interesting
- that you could put down--
- experience.
- When I had the shop in Greenwich Village,
- I was going through a bad period.
- And one night, I was down to my last seven dollars.
- And so I just went out onto the streets,
- and everybody that night--
- notice they didn't ask for one dollar.
- They asked for twenty-five cents or fifty cents.
- And I walked around the village.
- It was a beautiful night.
- And I gave that seven dollars all away.
- It really seemed like everybody needed some part of that seven
- dollars.
- Gave it all away.
- I went back home and crawled in my bed,
- which was under the stairs in the back of the shop.
- You could hear the people going up the stairs.
- Incidentally, I have a third cousin
- that lives near Central Park West in a little--
- used to be a hotel in the thirties.
- I think it was built in the twenties or thirties.
- It has a Moroccan theme with the tiling and a fountain.
- And it's quite a charming place.
- And she and she looked up on the internet a--
- first she looked up the Edna St. Vincent Millay
- house, which is right across the street from my shop.
- I was at 72 Bedford, and she was right across the street.
- The Edna St. Vincent Millay house
- is the narrowest house in New York.
- You can almost reach from one side to the other.
- And there's three floors.
- There's two rooms on each floor.
- And a lot of famous people have lived there besides Edna St.
- Vincent Millay.
- But I think they still refer to it--
- So anyway, she looked it up on the internet.
- And that place she says, "It's for sale."
- And she says, "it's going for four point
- three million dollars."
- It was boarded up.
- I was afraid they were going to tear it down.
- I went back to in the nineties, and my shop
- had been turned into a French restaurant.
- And apparently, they had left in a hurry.
- It must be the tax people seized it or something.