Video Interview, Mark Hull, November 29, 2011

  • MARK HULL: Well, all this time I didn't know anything
  • about that.
  • Well, then when I got to the Burroughs Corporation,
  • that was a staid and straitlaced thing.
  • And they didn't have any young men really working there.
  • And so I didn't do that.
  • And then after I left Burroughs, I
  • went to the Standard Oil Company.
  • And I remember they had one guy.
  • And I suddenly became aware that the girls in the accounting
  • department had the hots for this one young guy
  • and always wondered what parties Thomas Haringer was attending
  • and all this and that.
  • But I didn't do anything about that.
  • But then there was a guy who came in as an apprentice
  • in the accounting department.
  • That's where I was with the Standard Oil Company.
  • It told you I was a traveling auditor.
  • And he was very nice.
  • And at that time, I got an invitation
  • to be a part of the alumni club at the University of Rochester
  • and go swimming every week.
  • So I began taking this cute guy from the Standard Oil Company
  • swimming with me, just so I could look at his bare body.
  • I didn't have anything to do and I didn't have any sex with him
  • or I didn't hug him, kiss him, or do anything like that.
  • But I was just interested in seeing him naked,
  • is what I did.
  • And I took several young people--
  • KEVIN INDOVINO: Are we rolling?
  • Oh, OK.
  • [LAUGHTER]
  • KEVIN INDOVINO: All right.
  • MARK HULL: You're interested in--
  • KEVIN INDOVINO: I'm going to pull you back here.
  • MARK HULL: All right.
  • CAMERAMAN: I just need you to slide a little to your right,
  • or at least stay--
  • KEVIN INDOVINO: Me?
  • CAMERAMAN: Yeah.
  • Your arm--
  • KEVIN INDOVINO: So you don't want me to lean in?
  • CAMERAMAN: Yeah.
  • KEVIN INDOVINO: OK, I'll lean this way.
  • OK.
  • Mark.
  • Ignore the cameras, ignore the lights.
  • This is just a conversation between you and I.
  • MARK HULL: Fine.
  • KEVIN INDOVINO: So when I ask you something
  • and you start answering and then you figure--
  • even if you think, oh, I can say that better,
  • just say, you know what, let me try that again.
  • MARK HULL: OK.
  • KEVIN INDOVINO: So don't worry about stopping if you need to.
  • MARK HULL: OK.
  • CAMERAMAN: I'm just-- I may do you this from time to time.
  • MARK HULL: You may do whatever you wish.
  • CAMERAMAN: So that you're recording into the camera.
  • KEVIN INDOVINO: Sorry, Brian.
  • Whatever I wish?
  • MARK HULL: Why do you have to be sorry to him?
  • You don't owe him any debt of gratitude
  • I don't think, unless he's your lover
  • and you think he's getting fresh with me.
  • [LAUGHTER]
  • KEVIN INDOVINO: All right, so back to my original question.
  • We don't need to get into details of your coming out
  • or the gay thing yet.
  • I just want you to give me a sense
  • of what it was like living in Rochester in the 1950s
  • and '60s.
  • CAMERAMAN: Kevin, I'm going to stop just for one--
  • I'm sorry.
  • KEVIN INDOVINO: Not too long.
  • [LAUGHTER]
  • MARK HULL: Off camera, off the record for the moment.
  • I have to tell you, when I look and when
  • I look at myself between the ages of, say, 12 and 21,
  • I was really very stupid.
  • I mean, I knew so little it was pathetic.
  • I was a good student.
  • But I didn't know anything about life and about living
  • and about sex.
  • I told you once before when I asked my mother,
  • she said, ask your father.
  • And when I asked my father, he said, when you need to know,
  • you'll find out.
  • That's exactly what he said.
  • So I was totally in the dark.
  • And I had two, three aunts and they all--
  • they thought it was--
  • they wondered why I didn't have a girlfriend.
  • I didn't wonder why I didn't have a girlfriend.
  • I didn't know why I didn't have a girlfriend.
  • What the heck did I want with a girlfriend?
  • I didn't know.
  • But I was really so dumb.
  • And then when I was 22 years old,
  • a Jewish man by the name of Mordecai Greenberg
  • and his wife Elisbeth--
  • E-L-I-S-B-E-T-H, Elisbeth.
  • They were really strict Jews.
  • And they took an interest in me because they
  • didn't have any-- they had a girl,
  • but they didn't have any male children.
  • And Mordecai took a real interest in me
  • and so did his wife.
  • And they were really great people.
  • They made me aware.
  • He said if you will be friends to us,
  • we will be friends to you-- my father didn't like that--
  • and said, we will show you how the Jews make money.
  • And they got involved in my investment activities.
  • They put up money to help me buy into things,
  • and that sort of thing.
  • And I had a friendship with them for the rest of my life.
  • And I became more--
  • the more money I made, the more worldly I became.
  • I became more independent.
  • And I began to learn more things.
  • This is just telling you how I grew up as an individual.
  • And that's really how I grew up as an individual.
  • I had no appreciation of--
  • I had no appreciation of, again, how things were in the world.
  • Now, in 1947, I guess it was, I was already
  • at the Eastman School of Music.
  • I had been there since 1944.
  • And I had seen--
  • I was invited to something at Kilburn Hall
  • and Lyndon Croxford was the man who put on the show
  • on Edvard Grieg.
  • And I thought he looked like a good teacher.
  • And I asked if I could study with him.
  • They told me, yes.
  • And in the fall, I expected to study with him.
  • And I found out he got fired.
  • I thought-- I wondered why it was that he got fired.
  • Well, the reason he got fired was
  • because he was having sex with a boy and was found out about it.
  • See, I had not heard that that stuff went on.
  • I didn't know.
  • And the next thing I knew, they had hired a new person
  • from Juilliard and his name was Harold Weiss.
  • And it developed that he was a good teacher,
  • and he was a nice teacher.
  • He really was.
  • And I studied with him for like 15 years.
  • And I remember the horror I had when I went to Sibley's one
  • Saturday and found him soliciting
  • for sex in the men's room--
  • in the downstairs men's room of--
  • he's dead now so I'm telling you this.
  • There's nothing-- no harm going to come of it.
  • But I thought that was just unbelievable.
  • Well, then he introduced me to several members--
  • he saw that I saw that he was in that men's room.
  • And he said, "Everything is strictly on the QT."
  • I said, all right.
  • But he let me know about other faculty
  • people in the University of Rochester who were gay men
  • and who never wanted to be exposed.
  • But he obviously trusted me.
  • And until this very day, I have not
  • mentioned to anybody about this business that I knew.
  • All right, now, this was all developing in that 10 year
  • period leading up to 1961 and the Dr. Draper business.
  • KEVIN INDOVINO: So let me--
  • MARK HULL: Go ahead, go ahead.
  • KEVIN INDOVINO: So you're seeing all this,
  • and you're hearing about all this.
  • What were you feeling personally about your own sexuality?
  • MARK HULL: I was totally ambivalent--
  • totally.
  • It's just-- I just was not--
  • never thought of making any kind of an alliance
  • with another man, or another person.
  • But I never fell in love with a girl.
  • I never really did.
  • Feelings would stir inside me.
  • I'd see a beautiful guy come along
  • and stir of feelings would stir inside me.
  • And I didn't know what was causing this.
  • And I really didn't know what was causing this.
  • But I had no feelings toward the opposite sex at all.
  • KEVIN INDOVINO: OK, so let's jump to the 1960s.
  • MARK HULL: All right.
  • KEVIN INDOVINO: Let's take it from Dr. Draper on.
  • You eventually came out.
  • You eventually--
  • MARK HULL: I came out in 1967 when I was 36 years old.
  • KEVIN INDOVINO: Talk to me about that.
  • Talk to me about that experience.
  • What were you-- what were your fears?
  • What were your desires?
  • What were you feeling inside at that moment?
  • MARK HULL: I never had any fear.
  • I really never had any fear.
  • I told you that in '67 I went with Mr. Rochester.
  • You remember the weightlifter?
  • And we went to Toronto.
  • And he had sex in the same hotel room with--
  • we had one hotel room.
  • And he brought a young man in and he
  • had sex with the young man in the next bed.
  • And they thought I was asleep.
  • I pretended I was asleep.
  • I was not asleep.
  • I was very well aware of what was going on over there.
  • And I can still think it yet, and I can still hear
  • the sounds and everything else.
  • That's that great memory of mine.
  • KEVIN INDOVINO: We gotta keep this PG.
  • MARK HULL: I've got to keep it PG?
  • Oh, PG-- you mean that's the rating.
  • All right.
  • But it's really so interesting because I didn't still
  • have any--
  • I have to tell you, I have no immense feelings, never had,
  • for anybody in my life.
  • Every person that approached me, approached me.
  • I did not make the approaches.
  • I became, not the dominant.
  • I was a very--
  • I was a very pleasant, kind, nice person.
  • I told the experience with Brian Cornrich,
  • the man who I gave the ride to.
  • You remember that?
  • And I said-- even then, he thought I was picking him up,
  • but I wasn't picking him up.
  • I was just giving him a ride.
  • KEVIN INDOVINO: So let me ask you then,
  • when did you first start getting involved with what
  • we'll call the gay community?
  • MARK HULL: In 19--
  • I would say probably 1968 or '69, in that general area.
  • And I got involved because when I
  • was going to the Eastman School of Music and studying,
  • I decided I wanted to go to a Y where there were naked men.
  • I wanted to see naked men.
  • Not that I was going to pick up anybody,
  • but I wanted to see naked men.
  • And so I joined the Y. I joined the athletic club,
  • so we could use the-- and it was all male at that time.
  • So you didn't wear bathing suits and everybody was swimming
  • naked and all the rest of it.
  • KEVIN INDOVINO: But that wasn't really the gay scene.
  • MARK HULL: That wasn't really the gay scene.
  • No, it was not.
  • In 1966 I bought the building on West Main Street--
  • 870-- where I eventually allowed the Gay Alliance to meet, OK.
  • When I bought that building, I went down to Critic's one day
  • to eat my lunch.
  • And a man by the name of David Russell,
  • who was then in his late 60s, was the chef
  • in Critic's Restaurant.
  • And he said to me, "Do you have--
  • do you have a wife?"
  • And I said, "No."
  • He said, "Well, do you have a boyfriend?"
  • And I said, "I don't think so."
  • And he said, "Would you be interested in maybe
  • hearing about how it is to have a boyfriend?"
  • And I said, "Yeah, what do I have to do?"
  • And he said, "Well, I think I want to go shopping with you
  • and buy you some clothes."
  • And he bought me a pair of white shoes
  • and a pair of white pants and a beautiful white shirt
  • because he wanted me all dressed in white because he
  • thought I would look better.
  • And I said, "Where are we going?"
  • He says, "We're going to a gay bar."
  • And he says, "They have purple lighting or black lighting
  • from the ceiling."
  • And he said, "When you come in, your white clothes
  • are going to look really white and so will mine."
  • And he got me getting into the gay bar.
  • He was the one that caused me to relax
  • all my defenses and everything.
  • He said, "There's nothing to it."
  • He says, "It's just nice," and he says, "It's
  • nice to have a boyfriend."
  • And he had an apartment at the corner of Union and--
  • oh, Union Street and I can't think--
  • and Scio, Union and Scio.
  • And he would invite me up to his apartment,
  • but I never had sex with him.
  • But then I--
  • KEVIN INDOVINO: --take it back to your first moment
  • of walking into the bar.
  • Do you remember what bar it was?
  • MARK HULL: The first bar I walked into
  • was not with David--
  • not with David.
  • I had been-- I walked in-- the first bar
  • I walked into was Dick's 43 on Stone Street.
  • KEVIN INDOVINO: Talk to me about Dick's 43.
  • What was Dick's 43 like?
  • What was it like walking into that place?
  • MARK HULL: Well, it was noisy and everybody was smoking.
  • And I didn't smoke.
  • And nobody knew who I was.
  • And the first time I walked into Dick's bar,
  • it was like everybody was looking at me.
  • And they said, "That must be some new queen."
  • I love that.
  • And one of the voices hollered out and said,
  • "I think he's a super queen!"
  • I didn't know what any of that stuff meant.
  • And then, subsequently, the police came in.
  • And I told you all about that.
  • KEVIN INDOVINO: But you got to tell me again
  • because we're on camera now.
  • So let's just--
  • MARK HULL: But I never was as at home, comfortable,
  • in Dick's 43.
  • I didn't become comfortable until David Russell from
  • Critic's--
  • that would have been in '68, '69--
  • took me over to Jim's Bar on North Street.
  • And then I was with David, and David
  • made me feel very comfortable.
  • He says, "Now look, I'm with you and you're with me."
  • And he said, "I'll introduce you around."
  • And he says, "That'll work out very well."
  • And of course, I picked up on everything very quickly.
  • And I was very happy with that.
  • And after that, I stopped going to the Dick's 43,
  • and I went almost exclusively to Jim's Bar.
  • KEVIN INDOVINO: Talk to me about Jim's then.
  • Again, what was it like?
  • What did it look like?
  • What kind of people went there?
  • MARK HULL: Well, James Van Allen--
  • and he was the man who owned that.
  • And he was a--
  • he was a-- he did odd jobs.
  • He was like a carpenter, that sort of thing.
  • And he was in the insurance business.
  • And he had a lady friend who was in the insurance business.
  • And the lady friend helped him come up
  • with the money he needed to start Jim's Bar over
  • on North Street.
  • And then he met Donald Schultz, a man that they called Duckie.
  • And he worked for General Motors.
  • And he had money, and he partnered in
  • with James Van Allen.
  • And the two of them sort of were the two people
  • who ran Jim's Bar.
  • And it was really a nice--
  • it was a nice bar.
  • It was a clean bar.
  • They had a stage in the back.
  • They had guys in little g-strings
  • that used to do dancing in the back.
  • There was no overt nudity, but it was nice.
  • And you could meet people there.
  • And a lot of the students from the universities around who
  • were interested in the gay scene would come to Jim's Bar.
  • I believe they came to Jim's Bar more
  • than they came the other bars.
  • But of course, right around the corner from Jim's Bar,
  • was Tara.
  • And that was owned by Irvin Wegman.
  • And I knew Irvin Wegman.
  • And I used to go into the Tara Bar.
  • And they had a grand piano there.
  • And I played that, and they called me the Horowitz of Tara.
  • That's what they called me, really.
  • And that was really so interesting.
  • But my main bar was still Jim's Bar.
  • That's really where I--
  • I was very comfortable there, and I met a lot of people
  • there.
  • And I always sat at the same table
  • with my cup of Classic Coca-Cola.
  • I was always in the same exact place.
  • And people got very accustomed to seeing me.
  • KEVIN INDOVINO: Again, talk to me a little bit more about
  • the kind of people that you were meeting at Jim's or at Tara's.
  • What were you learning about the gay community
  • by meeting these people at these bars?
  • MARK HULL: That the people who are coming into the bars,
  • in many cases were university educated people.
  • They were not only university students,
  • but they were older people.
  • Now, I never met Harold Weiss or any
  • of that group of teachers from the Eastman School of Music
  • in the university, whom I knew were gay because of what
  • Harold Weiss had told me.
  • I never met any of those people in any of the bars.
  • So they did not frequent the bar scene.
  • But I remember I had a contract with a man
  • to do some heating work.
  • And he was a straight man, Lewis Lawrence.
  • And he did some contract heating work for me
  • in the building at 870 Main Street West.
  • And one night, my god, there he was in Jim's Bar.
  • And I knew he was married, and I knew he had a couple of kids.
  • And I thought, well, gee--
  • when he came in, he was shocked.
  • I guess he didn't expect to see me there.
  • And I thought, well, what are you doing here?
  • You don't belong here.
  • And he says, "How do you know where
  • I belong and don't belong?"
  • I said, "What does your wife think?
  • Does she know you're down here?"
  • He says, "No, she doesn't need to know."
  • KEVIN INDOVINO: Did you--
  • outside of the bars, did you have
  • any sense of any other venue for the gay community?
  • MARK HULL: No.
  • KEVIN INDOVINO: For the people who
  • didn't want to go to the bars?
  • MARK HULL: Well, now in Midtown--
  • everyday in Midtown, David Russell,
  • the man from Critic's--
  • he worked in Critic's from in the morning, 7:00,
  • until 2:00 in the afternoon.
  • At 2 o'clock in the afternoon, he
  • went home, cleaned up, and went over to Midtown
  • and had a table at Midtown.
  • And he'd watch for high school students--
  • good looking guys walking through.
  • And he'd say to them--
  • he'd be very-- he was very brave.
  • And he went right up to them and would say, "Would you
  • enjoy a cup of coffee with me?
  • I'll treat."
  • And then they'd sit at his table.
  • And many times, he would take them home with him.
  • And he would have sex with them, and he took them home.
  • So I knew that that little--
  • there was that table of his where
  • he tried to pick up people he thought were gay prospects.
  • I didn't do that.
  • I watched.
  • I sat at his table sometimes and watch what he did.
  • I was very much--
  • I was very nonaggressive.
  • KEVIN INDOVINO: I want to get back to the bar scene.
  • I want to get to the stories about the bars being raided.
  • Because you experience that at some points, right?
  • MARK HULL: Right.
  • When I say that they were raided,
  • I mean that the police came in, and would just
  • come walking in the front door.
  • And everybody would be scared to death
  • and would run out the back door.
  • But I didn't run out.
  • I said, "I don't know why you guys are here,
  • but go ahead and arrest me.
  • I really don't give a damn.
  • And I'd like to get it in court and see
  • what you think you can do because I
  • think we're being violated of our first amendment rights."
  • I remember that.
  • And nobody arrested me.
  • Nobody did anything.
  • And I thought to myself, well, that's interesting.
  • The whole thing is just a bunch--
  • it's a sham.
  • And they're trying to scare the hell out
  • of these poor guys in the gay community.
  • And the poor guys are afraid of either losing their jobs
  • or being arrested or something.
  • I wasn't afraid of any of those things.
  • And I'm not afraid of them today even.
  • I'm very, very outspoken.
  • I don't know what else--
  • KEVIN INDOVINO: No, that's-- because I'm going to follow up
  • with you here.
  • MARK HULL: Go ahead.
  • KEVIN INDOVINO: With that happening--
  • I mean, you stood up to them.
  • MARK HULL: Yes, I did.
  • KEVIN INDOVINO: But most people didn't.
  • MARK HULL: No, they did not.
  • KEVIN INDOVINO: Did you ever get a sense
  • that your gayness was something that you
  • should hide from society?
  • MARK HULL: Never, never, never.
  • I didn't hide it from my own parents.
  • KEVIN INDOVINO: Talk to me about that.
  • Talk to me about the relationship with your parents.
  • How did they deal with it?
  • MARK HULL: Well, my mother and father,
  • I don't know whether my father really thought about it.
  • Recently, one of the retired scoutmasters came to visit me.
  • And he said to me, "You know, your father
  • knew that you didn't like girls."
  • He was familiar with my father.
  • He says, "He didn't know that you didn't like girls."
  • But he said, "You never mentioned anything to him
  • that you didn't like girls."
  • I thought, I didn't think it was important to mention it to him.
  • But he did bring that to my attention just recently.
  • My father never mentioned anything about it.
  • He never said to me, "You should get yourself a girlfriend."
  • I had one--
  • I had one boy from high school who came
  • to my house every Friday night.
  • And we spent Friday night together.
  • He didn't spend the night together.
  • He came over, and then I would take him home.
  • And then-- and one day we were thinking of experimenting,
  • but we never-- it never really amounted to anything.
  • And that high school student that chummed around with me
  • in high school was Dr. Draper.
  • He eventually went to the University of Rochester,
  • because I went to the University of Rochester,
  • and enrolled in medical school and got to be a doctor.
  • And that's why I was seeing him as a doctor
  • after he had gotten his MD.
  • That's what led to that.
  • But he has been my friend, actually, since high school.
  • He was born in 1933, and he was about two years younger
  • than I was.
  • And my aunt had a fit to think that I had him
  • for a good friend.
  • She says, "I don't know why you want
  • to hang around with that kid."
  • She says, "Why don't you get yourself a girlfriend?"
  • This was my mother's sister.
  • KEVIN INDOVINO: Let me jump ahead a little bit here.
  • MARK HULL: Go ahead.
  • KEVIN INDOVINO: When did you first start getting
  • involved in gay activism?
  • MARK HULL: Well, it was certainly
  • after I started attending Gay Alliance meetings.
  • I went to the Gay Alliance meetings.
  • KEVIN INDOVINO: Can you tell me the first time
  • that you went to a meeting?
  • And more importantly, what were you hoping to experience?
  • MARK HULL: I didn't know.
  • I was totally not knowing what I was going
  • to experience when I got there.
  • I had been to gay bars at that point.
  • And as I say, by that time, I had
  • had at least a couple of gay experiences with people
  • whom I knew.
  • KEVIN INDOVINO: Let me take you back.
  • Let's start at the beginning here.
  • Let's talk about the Gay Liberation Front
  • at the university.
  • MARK HULL: At the University of Rochester.
  • OK.
  • KEVIN INDOVINO: Talk to me about your first experience
  • with them.
  • What did you know of them?
  • MARK HULL: Well, because of being an alumnus,
  • I got a copy of the alumni news.
  • And in the alumni news, there was a little article
  • and it said, Gay Liberation Front organization
  • is meeting at the University of Rochester--
  • Gay Liberation Front organization meeting
  • at the University of Rochester.
  • And so then-- and there was a phone number.
  • And I called the phone number.
  • And I said, "I'm a graduate of the U of R,
  • and I want to know if I could attend one of your meetings."
  • And they said, "Are you a gay man?"
  • And I said, "I don't know."
  • And then whoever talked to me at that time--
  • I think it was a lady--
  • said to me, "Well, we meet at such and such a time
  • at the river campus and we meet like once a week,
  • or whatever the meeting was, once a week."
  • And I started going to those meetings.
  • And I don't think I really participated very much.
  • I think I sat there and listened because they
  • were trying to get organized.
  • I know that one of the guys that was interested in that
  • was Eddie David--
  • Cheesy Eddie's-- and his sister Marjorie.
  • And they were both-- she was a lesbian, and he was a gay man.
  • And they started Cheesy Eddie's over
  • on the University of Rochester campus, the river campus.
  • And so I got to know who they were, and got
  • to know about their business, and got
  • to see them at those Gay Liberation Front meetings.
  • KEVIN INDOVINO: Tell me what was happening at those meetings.
  • What was being talked about?
  • What were the challenges that they were trying to address?
  • MARK HULL: They were trying to figure out
  • what they could do in the community
  • so that they would have--
  • that people would recognize who they
  • were and would feel that they were not a danger
  • to the rest of the community.
  • They didn't want-- the people in the gay community didn't want
  • to be--
  • didn't want the rest of the community
  • to feel as though they were a danger
  • to the community, a danger to their children
  • or anything else.
  • And that most of all, we weren't trying to convert.
  • They wanted to show the people on the outside
  • that we weren't trying to convert anybody.
  • We wanted to be there so if people
  • thought they had gay leanings, they
  • would have a support group.
  • I think they viewed themselves as a support group
  • more than anything.
  • And that made it really quite nice.
  • And they would tell about things that they were doing.
  • And Wilfred LeBlanc-- you know, "Whitey"--
  • he used to have little parties at his house.
  • And I used to attend those little parties.
  • And James Van Allen who ran Jim's Bar,
  • he had little parties at his house,
  • and I attended those parties.
  • I attended a lot of parties around.
  • I got invited to a lot of places because I was there,
  • I was relatively quiet, I listened, and really
  • enjoyed suddenly being assimilated
  • into the whole gay scene.
  • I was very happy being assimilated into the gay scene.
  • It was what I really wanted because I suddenly
  • realized that this is what the business of my being
  • drawn to men--
  • that's what the gay scene meant.
  • And I was learning that.
  • And that was a wonderful--
  • in that regard, that was a wonderful learning time,
  • even though I wasn't going out and having
  • a lot of wild sex with people.
  • I was not doing it that way.
  • I've really always been very passive.
  • KEVIN INDOVINO: I want to follow up on this a little bit
  • because I don't want to lose this moment.
  • When you were going to those meetings,
  • what was the benefit for you personally?
  • What were you really getting out of it?
  • You actually kind of already answered.
  • I just want you to talk about it again.
  • MARK HULL: I wanted to be--
  • I was looking for acceptance.
  • I'm sure that was the case.
  • I was looking to be assimilated by the gay community.
  • And I was very happy.
  • I knew that I was attracted to men--
  • not wildly, but just, I was attracted to men.
  • I thought men were just wonderful.
  • And I still think men are just wonderful.
  • I really do.
  • I just like us.
  • I think we're nice people.
  • I truly think that we are nice people.
  • And that's what I was going to that gay meeting for.
  • If I had to--
  • I did not have a sexual involvement with women.
  • I didn't really have much of a sexual involvement with men.
  • But I wondered where we--
  • where I stood or where we stood, or if there
  • were other elements in the community,
  • people who wanted to--
  • they were looking for a safe haven.
  • I think a lot of the people, a lot
  • of the kids that were coming to the gay meetings--
  • not the students at the University of Rochester,
  • although some of them were.
  • I remember one specific student at the University of Rochester
  • and he said to me, "I want to tell my mother
  • and father that I'm gay and I don't know how to do it."
  • And I said, "Are they coming to Rochester to see you?"
  • And he said, "Yes."
  • And I said, "Bring them over to my parents'
  • house on Whitney street, and I'll
  • introduce them to my parents."
  • And I said, "In the course of conversation,
  • I'll tell them that you and I know each other
  • and that we both like men and that your son likes men."
  • And I said, "I think I can break the news to them
  • in a very gentle way that won't really upset them too much."
  • And I did exactly that.
  • And it had a good effect.
  • And that was a good thing.
  • And then there was there was another young doctor
  • by the name of Harold Hahn.
  • And he is a young doctor.
  • And he introduced me to--
  • they were from Katonah, New York,
  • and he introduced me to his mother and the family
  • friend who was a judge.
  • And I'm not sure that they knew what
  • the feelings were between us, Harold and I.
  • But we had feelings.
  • We did not go to bed with each other.
  • KEVIN INDOVINO: I don't want to lose the Gay Liberation
  • Front here.
  • MARK HULL: Go ahead.
  • KEVIN INDOVINO: Let's stay with that--
  • after Michael fixes you up.
  • MARK HULL: Fix me up, Michael.
  • Fix me up.
  • That's what I need.
  • Fix me up.
  • That's what I need.
  • KEVIN INDOVINO: I want to stay with the Gay Liberation Front.
  • MARK HULL: Go ahead.
  • All right.
  • KEVIN INDOVINO: At some point, the University of Rochester
  • started having problems with you guys meeting on campus.
  • MARK HULL: It was quite abrupt.
  • It was quite abrupt because it--
  • KEVIN INDOVINO: Start from the beginning of that story
  • and just kind of walk me through it.
  • What happened with the university,
  • and how did you get involved?
  • What did you do to help solve the problem?
  • MARK HULL: Oh, well, they announced that the university
  • had said, as a matter of policy, city people would not continue
  • to be allowed to meet at the university premises
  • because of certain donors-- they didn't mention the McCurdy
  • family at that time--
  • had agreed to withdraw their substantial funding
  • of university projects if it appeared
  • that the university was backing this sort of lifestyle,
  • rather than just having it as a campus activity.
  • And they said, it's going to be necessary that the city--
  • that the city people go and find their own place to meet.
  • And at that very meeting I got up and said,
  • "I have an unused building at 870 Main Street West,
  • and I would be willing to let you meet there at no charge."
  • That's exactly how it happened.
  • KEVIN INDOVINO: OK, so now take me from that point on.
  • How did it all come about?
  • Eventually-- well, let's start there.
  • Just talk to me about--
  • MARK HULL: Well, I gave them a key
  • to the area in the building that they were
  • going to be allowed to use.
  • And they came over and they started meeting there.
  • And they met there for as long as they
  • wanted to meet there until they had another location that they
  • were going to go to.
  • KEVIN INDOVINO: Where did this leave the students, though,
  • that were at the university?
  • Did the group split, or did the students
  • come over with you guys?
  • MARK HULL: No, the students, I don't think,
  • really came over with us.
  • It was all city people at that point.
  • And the students continued to meet as the Gay Liberation
  • Front on the River Campus.
  • KEVIN INDOVINO: And at some point,
  • the Gay Liberation Front became the Gay Alliance.
  • MARK HULL: That's correct.
  • KEVIN INDOVINO: Walk me through that story.
  • MARK HULL: Well, the reason for that
  • was because the name Gay Liberation Front was really
  • the activity title of the group that met
  • at the University of Rochester.
  • The students always wanted to take a stand.
  • That was the whole thing.
  • That's why it was called a front.
  • The students wanted to take a stand.
  • Students always take stands.
  • And they wanted to take a stand.
  • And they thought that there were enough students who
  • had this lifestyle that they should take a stand
  • and let the community know, or at least let
  • every people around them know, that they were not-- they
  • didn't feel that this lifestyle was a hateful lifestyle
  • and that you could be a good, upright citizen
  • and still have this lifestyle.
  • And this is what that was about.
  • And it was necessary that the community people--
  • if the University of Rochester students
  • were still using the title Gay Liberation Front,
  • it meant that the city students had to come up with a new name.
  • And the new name was the Gay Alliance.
  • And because it was an alliance of the men and the women,
  • that's why it was the Gay Alliance.
  • KEVIN INDOVINO: Talk to me about that
  • a little bit though because the whole men and women together
  • didn't really happen right away.
  • MARK HULL: No, it did not happen right away because I had--
  • EVELYN BAILEY: When they moved to Brown Street
  • to your building, it was the Gay Brotherhood.
  • MARK HULL: It was--
  • yes, you're right.
  • Right, it was called the Gay Brotherhood.
  • KEVIN INDOVINO: OK, so let's start from there then.
  • Let's talk about the move to Brown Street
  • and it being called the Gay Brotherhood.
  • MARK HULL: Well, and they had their meetings there.
  • KEVIN INDOVINO: But I need you to tell me that so we
  • can get it on camera.
  • MARK HULL: OK.
  • Well, after I offered the location to them,
  • the men, I guess we might as well say,
  • decided that they would avail themselves of that offer.
  • And I gave them the keys to the building
  • so that they could get in and be there and feel
  • as though it was theirs to use.
  • Pardon.
  • Stop the camera.
  • I'm sorry.
  • I'm sorry, I'm coughing.
  • Did I move anything?
  • EVELYN BAILEY: Want some water?
  • I can get you some water.
  • MARK HULL: That might help.
  • If there's a-- if there's a nurse out in the hallway
  • there-- if you go right into the room two doors-- not
  • this next room but the very next room,
  • you'll see a sink over there.
  • And if you can.
  • But if you can't, just walk down the hill and then down--
  • KEVIN INDOVINO: Yeah, so let's take it back.
  • Let's talk about the move from the University to your place
  • and in that particular time period,
  • tell me again the story of what happened
  • and what came out of it.
  • MARK HULL: Well, they announced one night
  • at a meeting of the Gay Liberation Front
  • that people from the city would no longer be allowed
  • to participate in that activity because it
  • was endangering a funding source from the University
  • of Rochester.
  • And I got up immediately and I said,
  • "I have an unused building over 870 Main Street West--
  • Brown Street, she calls it.
  • It had a double address--
  • 870 Main Street West and 816 Brown Street."
  • And I said, They could do that."
  • And she got me a glass of water, and that's wonderful.
  • I appreciate that--
  • KEVIN INDOVINO: OK, so let's again start back
  • at the beginning again.
  • Back to where you started before.
  • MARK HULL: And I was on friendly terms
  • with all the city, all the city men who were meeting.
  • It was James Olin and Bob Crystal
  • and all these city people from the city.
  • And I was very happy to have that group of men meeting
  • in my building, if it could be of assistance to them.
  • And it was for, what, a year, a year and a half,
  • something like that-- whatever it was--
  • until they moved over into the co-op.
  • And now, I don't know where the women were, now
  • that I think about it.
  • Did the women go directly to the co-op?
  • OK, so the women went directly to the co-op.
  • What else do you want me to talk?
  • KEVIN INDOVINO: So let's go back--
  • I'm just trying to put the pieces of the puzzle
  • together here.
  • So let's go back to--
  • OK, the men moved over to your building.
  • So pick it up from that point and tell me
  • what happened over the next year or so.
  • And then where did they go from there?
  • MARK HULL: Well, they met in the building.
  • They had meetings.
  • They talked over a lot of different things.
  • I was there for the meetings.
  • I know I was.
  • I was there for the meetings.
  • And they-- you know, I can't remember
  • exactly what they talked about.
  • I knew that I was going to the meetings
  • because I was looking for a haven.
  • And I felt that most people that attended those meetings were
  • looking for havens.
  • And like any group that meets, they
  • were trying to figure out what activities.
  • I remember they used to have picnics at Genesee Valley Park.
  • And I attended those picnics.
  • I was trying to think what other social activities they had.
  • But I did attend those social activities
  • because I enjoyed them.
  • I enjoyed being-- the fact that the rest
  • of the men in the group were gay,
  • I don't think that was of any interest to me at all.
  • I was there because I thought that my lifestyle, or what
  • would become my lifestyle, was an acceptable thing, I thought.
  • And I felt the rest of these men were looking for acceptance
  • of their lifestyle.
  • And I felt that they felt that their feelings
  • of being worthwhile and not having to be
  • chased away or not being treated prejudicially--
  • I mean, the men, the people from the city,
  • they didn't really know where to go.
  • They really didn't.
  • And I thought, this is a chance for me to just stand up
  • and say, well, I'll give you something.
  • You know, sometimes you've got to have somebody
  • speak up a little bit and come forth and come up
  • with a solution.
  • And that's what I tried to do.
  • KEVIN INDOVINO: So they met at your building for a while.
  • And then what happened?
  • MARK HULL: Well, then they decided that they wanted to--
  • you know, the Bull's Head area was a declining area.
  • And they felt that if they went over to that co-op
  • on Monroe Avenue, that that was a better area.
  • And that's the reason--
  • that's the reason that they made the move.
  • The women were already there.
  • And they decided that they would go over there
  • and they would do that.
  • And then they made that move.
  • And then I used the building at Bull's Head for other purposes.
  • KEVIN INDOVINO: When they made the move,
  • can you talk me through the process of them then
  • becoming the Gay Alliance?
  • How did that all happen?
  • MARK HULL: No, I can't tell you that because I'm not
  • sure I know that.
  • When they moved over to the co-op,
  • I still attended meetings, although I
  • don't know if I attended them as regularly.
  • I'm trying to-- what year did they
  • start doing The Empty Closet?
  • KEVIN INDOVINO: '71?
  • MARK HULL: '71, all right.
  • Once The Empty Closet started coming out,
  • I was interested in The Empty Closet
  • because I was interested in reading about what
  • was happening locally.
  • And so with that as a information source,
  • I didn't find myself so inclined to attend as many meetings
  • as I did before because I could learn a great deal just
  • from reading The Empty Closet.
  • And I did read The Empty Closet.
  • KEVIN INDOVINO: I want to touch on that for minute then.
  • Do you remember the first time you picked up an Empty Closet?
  • What were you feeling when you saw that in your hand?
  • MARK HULL: Well, now, don't forget.
  • Don't forget I was already a subscriber to The Advocate
  • from Los Angeles and had been from there,
  • beginning with the third or fourth issue.
  • I immediately subscribed.
  • And I don't know what opening year--
  • I don't know what that year was that they started it.
  • I think it was in the early '60s.
  • It was, I think, early '60s.
  • And I subscribed to The Advocate and I
  • subscribed for like 20 years.
  • So when I first picked up a copy of The Advocate--
  • or of The Empty Closet, this was a very small little newspaper
  • compared to what The Advocate was.
  • And The Advocate was big things.
  • And so I don't think it had--
  • I don't think it had a lot of effect on me at that time.
  • KEVIN INDOVINO: But did you think
  • it was an important thing for Rochester to have?
  • Or did you give it any thought at all?
  • MARK HULL: I don't think I gave it any thought at all.
  • [LAUGHTER]
  • KEVIN INDOVINO: A couple extra just small little notes
  • I remember from our first conversation--
  • MARK HULL: Go ahead.
  • KEVIN INDOVINO: Do you remember the incident
  • at the top of the plaza, the dance-in?
  • MARK HULL: Yes.
  • KEVIN INDOVINO: Tell me what that was all about.
  • MARK HULL: I'm not sure I can do that.
  • I got familiar with the top of the plaza because
  • of the Richard Rife.
  • Richard Rife was an opera student
  • at the Eastman School of Music.
  • And he was also a waiter at the Shakespeare.
  • I told you about that.
  • And then he and I went out to lunch rather frequently.
  • And one day we went up to the top of the plaza.
  • And I don't know, he talked to people around.
  • And there was some conversation about the fact
  • that they'd like to have gay dancing up
  • at the top of the plaza and that would be a nice thing to do.
  • And he talked with people about this sort of thing.
  • But I didn't really become involved in that to any degree.
  • I went up there, and I was present when a lot of things
  • happened up there.
  • But once again, I was sort of passive.
  • I didn't-- not because I was afraid,
  • but because I wouldn't come forth unless I had something
  • to contribute.
  • And that's what would make me come forth.
  • There was the business with the police.
  • Somebody needed to say something because everybody
  • was running away.
  • The business with letting them meet at my building
  • because all of a sudden they had no place to go
  • and somebody had to step in and fill in the gap.
  • And I did that.
  • Now, with the business up in the top of the plaza,
  • I witnessed what went on, but I was not
  • the cause of what went on.
  • KEVIN INDOVINO: Do you have an opinion on why
  • it went on, why it happened?
  • MARK HULL: Oh, Richard said they wanted
  • to let the straight community know that they
  • wanted to make a statement.
  • They wanted to get gay dancing approved
  • in places where straight couples were able to dance.
  • And the top of the plaza did not see it
  • that way because they said nothing about gay dancing
  • when they were going up there.
  • And all of a sudden, gay men stepped out on the dance floor
  • and started dancing with each other.
  • KEVIN INDOVINO: Now, you said you were there
  • when it happened?
  • MARK HULL: I was there when it happened.
  • KEVIN INDOVINO: So what were you feeling
  • when you were witnessing that?
  • MARK HULL: I was totally ambivalent-- totally ambivalent
  • about it.
  • I wasn't doing any of the dancing, let's put it that way.
  • I really wasn't.
  • Pardon me.
  • It's awful to be 80 years old have to put up
  • with this kind of crap.
  • That's what it is-- it's crap.
  • KEVIN INDOVINO: Well, let me ask you this then,
  • because you almost started answering it.
  • Over the past 30, 40 years from, let's say,
  • 1970s on, what do you think has been your biggest contribution
  • to the gay community?
  • What impact do you think you have had in getting us
  • to where we are today?
  • MARK HULL: I'm willing to say I haven't had any impact at all.
  • KEVIN INDOVINO: Why not?
  • MARK HULL: I don't know.
  • I'm lackadaisical and I'm lazy.
  • I really am.
  • And besides, I had an officer from one
  • of the big corporations who approached me one day--
  • he knew me from the post office when
  • I went up to get my box mail--
  • and he said to me one day, he said,
  • "I understand from the rumors that you're a gay man."
  • And he said, "I'd like to be associated with a gay man--"
  • an officer of one of the big Rochester corporations,
  • I might add.
  • And for the next 20 years, every single day, five days a week--
  • he was married, had three children--
  • and for five days a week, we had sex, took showers together,
  • every single day for 20 years.
  • And I suppose if you're looking for something
  • in terms of fulfillment, that might cause you to go to a Gay
  • Alliance meeting.
  • I didn't have to look for that fulfillment.
  • I had this man and I had my darling Richard,
  • there was a man who was my power of attorney.
  • And I loved these people.
  • I really did.
  • I had two men to love.
  • And it was just great.
  • KEVIN INDOVINO: So if you were to give advice to a young adult
  • coming out of the closet today--
  • it's a different society today than it
  • was you were coming out.
  • MARK HULL: I think it's more permissive today.
  • KEVIN INDOVINO: What would you tell them?
  • What advice would you give them?
  • MARK HULL: Well, I think--
  • I don't want--
  • I don't want young people--
  • pardon me.
  • I don't want young people to have a feeling of helplessness.
  • This is the feeling that I get--
  • KEVIN INDOVINO: OK, hold that.
  • We're going to-- finish up your wiping then we'll finish off.
  • MARK HULL: I have the feeling that many
  • of these young people--
  • you know we have some suicides that have occurred.
  • And that's because they feel it's a hopeless situation.
  • They have no hope for the future.
  • And I want to give them hope for the future.
  • And then it's as simple as if your parents throw you out--
  • first of all, I see no necessity to confess to your parents
  • that you are a gay man or a gay woman.
  • You do not have to do that.
  • So many people have come to me and said,
  • how do I tell my parents?
  • And I told the parents of this one man,
  • I told you, from the Eastman School of Music.
  • But you don't need to tell your parents.
  • It's really none of their business.
  • You have your life, and your life is your business.
  • And you don't have to tell your parents one thing.
  • You don't have to tell your aunts
  • and uncles or your family.
  • You don't have to get them involved in that kind of crap.
  • I know that--
  • I told you before that my darling Robert,
  • the 42-year-old, and I've been close with him
  • now for almost five years.
  • And I remember one day, and it was interesting,
  • after he had gone out with me two or three
  • times, he took me over to his house
  • to introduce me to his mother.
  • And his mother is such a nice lady.
  • She really is.
  • And I remember-- and I--
  • they talked to me frequently on the phone.
  • And I remember one day his mother said to me, "You really
  • love my son, don't you?"
  • And I said, "Yes I do."
  • And she says, "That makes me feel so good."
  • That was really very good.
  • And she obviously verbalized to him that when she asked me
  • that question, and I said, yes, I love your son.
  • And then she told me that it made her feel so good.
  • And that's just the whole thing.
  • And my good relationship with his mother
  • exists to this very day.
  • It's just wonderful.
  • I just glow when I think about that relationship.
  • INTERVIEWER 3: What's the name again?
  • KEVIN INDOVINO: We got the Gay Liberation Front pretty much
  • covered.
  • MARK HULL: I am a very happy gay man.
  • I will tell you right now--
  • very happy.
  • Both of my people called me today
  • with great expressions of love and feeling
  • when they talk to me on the telephone.
  • And I am just absolutely in a state of ecstatic happiness
  • as I talk to you tonight because I know that I love them
  • and they know that they are loved by me.
  • And it's just a wonderful thing.
  • INTERVIEWER 3: Good, good.
  • KEVIN INDOVINO: Well, that's all I have.
  • MARK HULL: OK.
  • KEVIN INDOVINO: Thank you.
  • MARK HULL: I'm willing to answer any question that anybody
  • has at any time.
  • I'm a talker.
  • KEVIN INDOVINO: I would be here till next week if I kept you--
  • MARK HULL: If you kept me talking, because I do talk.